Gay and Lesbians.

Are Gay and Lesbians breking Seela according to Kamesu michchachara.

  • Yes

    Votes: 28 66.7%
  • No

    Votes: 14 33.3%

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Are they breking Seela
according to
Kamesu michchachara.

Kaamayehi veradi vidiyata hesiriema.


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Lesbian and Gay are two different kind of Sex types, its same as Oral and Anal sex, basically u cant point ur finger to a person and say you are lesbian, its her way of having sex,

Think of this, think about a shemale, (chick with a dick) if she have sex with a man thats Gay and if she have sex with a women that's ? lesbian, gay or Straight ?

I thought male homosexuals are Gay
and
female homosexuals are Lesbians.
Actually in my question I mean Homosexuals of both kind.​

 
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GihanFX

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Lesbian and Gay are two different kind of Sex types, its same as Oral and Anal sex, basically u cant point ur finger to a person and say you are lesbian, its her way of having sex,

Think of this, think about a shemale, (chick with a dick) if she have sex with a man thats Gay and if she have sex with a women that's ? lesbian, gay or Straight ?

Answer for your question is YES ( if a BI male have sex with women then it consider as "kamaya waradawa hasereema", the same Bi male have sex with a man aint it the same ? )
 
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Lesbian and Gay are two different kind of Sex types, its same as Oral and Anal sex, basically u cant point ur finger to a person and say you are lesbian, its her way of having sex,

Think of this, think about a shemale, (chick with a dick) if she have sex with a man thats Gay and if she have sex with a women that's ? lesbian, gay or Straight ?

Answer for your question is YES ( if a BI male have sex with women then it consider as "kamaya waradawa hasereema", the same Bi male have sex with a man aint it the same ? )

I thought male homosexuals are Gay
and
female homosexuals are Lesbians.
Actually in my question I mean Homosexuals of both kind.

 
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GihanFX

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I thought male homosexuals are Gay
and
female homosexuals are Lesbians.
Actually in my question I mean Homosexuals of both kind.


i answered your Question and its YES
buy you didn't answer my question ?
what about she male having sex with a man or a women ?
is it Straight, Gay or Lesbian ?
 

rajitha_ks

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    gay or lesbianism what's wrong with that? it's all about one's personal preference over the matter of sex. just forget 'bout pansil, bible quoran or whatever.. it's a personal issue.
    i didn't vote cuz i think relegion is irrelevent when it comes to personal matters.

    okay now don't call me gay cuz i'm not.. but i like the idea of lesbians.:P (girl on girl porn is the best):P:P:P
     

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    My interpretation of the third precept (AKA Kāmesu micchācāra) is to refrain from harmful sexual acts. For me these mean sexual harassment, extramarital sex and rape. I don’t see anything wrong with consensual sex between two adults even from the same sex. There is nothing wrong with that.

    Lesbian and Gay are two different kind of Sex types, its same as Oral and Anal sex, basically u cant point ur finger to a person and say you are lesbian, its her way of having sex,

    Think of this, think about a shemale, (chick with a dick) if she have sex with a man thats Gay and if she have sex with a women that's ? lesbian, gay or Straight ?

    Answer for your question is YES ( if a BI male have sex with women then it consider as "kamaya waradawa hasereema", the same Bi male have sex with a man aint it the same ? )

    I completely disagree.. Their sexual orientation, or how or what they do doesn't matter .. If both parties consent, then what is the problem ? OK, maybe it is against the so called "accepted social norms" but there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. So how can it be a sin ? Just because you and I don't like it doesn't make it wrong. Try to see the bigger picture...

    Therefore I say NO.
     
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    sriboysl

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    Are they breking Seela
    according to
    Kamesu michchachara.

    Kaamayehi veradi vidiyata hesiriema.



    In my view of Buddhism, it is not going to any extremes.
    I have not seen any strong restrictions for sex in Buddhism.
    Only thing I have seen sex of married people who having sex except their spouse is come under "kaama michchachara"
    Gay, Lesbian or prostitution sex has no come under this till it is not effected to any married family life.
     
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    bro it is better if you can meet up a monk n ask this so you'll be able to get correct, undecieved answer (consult a monk that spcialise in abhidharmaya)

    for discussion imo : by observing "kamesu michchcara or kamaye waradawa hasirima " gives us the meaning that although it's acceptable to have the sexual feeling, we must not do it in the wrong way.

    I define "not do it in the wrong way."as this :
    Firstly there should be no harm to OURSELVES[assuming that we are the ppl whose doin the karma] or the DOER in any means
    Secondly there should be no harm to everyone who are connected with us / rest of the world

    harm can happen mentally or physically.

    i.e [mentally] : if we 're tend to have sex very frequently forgetting all other work; our progress, family issues etc. we will loose the right attiudes which leads us to nirvana

    i.e [physically] : i dont have to mention rite! , std viruses, unwanted stress etc...