කේන්දරය හා විවාහය +16+

[greenthunder]

i trust horoscope/porondam.Most of you have perceived it as some kind of magical study which should give exact/100% accurate prediction.But its not like that.There are different different "GURU KULA" which believes in different planetary ranges,mathematical methods and theories.So remember this is not a SCIENCE.There are no exact theories except few which occurs in some extream conditions.for example if all the planets comes to a single house its said that the person is born with sufferings,loses and dolorous future.But remember horoscope cannot predict your future 100% .We are creatures of free will.You alone has decide/define what you will become.

for porondam its like this.Porondam speaks of personal traits.For example Paxi speaks about temper(one aspect).If your paxi doesn't match with your lover then probability of you two get in to fights are far more greater than a normal couple.But if you know this then you could simply avoid getting in to such useless fights.Now thats where porondam comes in handy.Don't go ask for the percentage,ask what porondams that don't match.then try to learn that what could be done to rectify those problems or personal traits.

 

[d3v13]

i trust horoscope/porondam.Most of you have perceived it as some kind of magical study which should give exact/100% accurate prediction.But its not like that.There are different different "GURU KULA" which believes in different planetary ranges,mathematical methods and theories.So remember this is not a SCIENCE.There are no exact theories except few which occurs in some extream conditions.for example if all the planets comes to a single house its said that the person is born with sufferings,loses and dolorous future.But remember horoscope cannot predict your future 100% .We are creatures of free will.You alone has decide/define what you will become.

for porondam its like this.Porondam speaks of personal traits.For example Paxi speaks about temper(one aspect).If your paxi doesn't match with your lover then probability of you two get in to fights are far more greater than a normal couple.But if you know this then you could simply avoid getting in to such useless fights.Now thats where porondam comes in handy.Don't go ask for the percentage,ask what porondams that don't match.then try to learn that what could be done to rectify those problems or personal traits.

sorry to say man, this is total bullshit. I think U know nothin about the couples who suffer because of these bloody porondoms and all that so their parents dont allow them to be together. In fact I my self dont want some planetary lineups to decide whether my gf is suitable for me or not. If I love her and more importantly if she loves me then I think those 2 conditions are enough to live a happy life.

 

[greenthunder]

sorry to say man, this is total bullshit. I think U know nothin about the couples who suffer because of these bloody porondoms and all that so their parents dont allow them to be together. In fact I my self dont want some planetary lineups to decide whether my gf is suitable for me or not. If I love her and more importantly if she loves me then I think those 2 conditions are enough to live a happy life.

you haven't got my point my friend .love is important ,yes i agree.and couples have been and will suffer because of this.its all about perception.most parents and adults have a wrong perception on this.which i have mentioned in my previous post.next time read correctly before replying.and remember only a mothers love is unconditional(we might soon need to rephrase this due to our so called developed modern society).I can go on explaining how to use astrology effectively for this kind of matters but it seems like you are one from the lot who lost their loved one coz of astrology.so it will be futile to explain it to you.

"If I love her and more importantly if she loves me then I think those 2 conditions are enough to live a happy life"

lulz i thought the same when i was a teenager.

love alone is not enough.money social status compatibility of minds/perception of things,moral,egos family backgrounds....etc.... you need to match these things too.you will realize when the time comes my friend.

 

[nirman.1995]

 

[gayankuwait]

ela

 

[nirman.1995]

ela

 

[d3v13]

you haven't got my point my friend .love is important ,yes i agree.and couples have been and will suffer because of this.its all about perception.most parents and adults have a wrong perception on this.which i have mentioned in my previous post.next time read correctly before replying.and remember only a mothers love is unconditional(we might soon need to rephrase this due to our so called developed modern society).I can go on explaining how to use astrology effectively for this kind of matters but it seems like you are one from the lot who lost their loved one coz of astrology.so it will be futile to explain it to you.

"If I love her and more importantly if she loves me then I think those 2 conditions are enough to live a happy life"

lulz i thought the same when i was a teenager.

love alone is not enough.money social status compatibility of minds/perception of things,moral,egos family backgrounds....etc.... you need to match these things too.you will realize when the time comes my friend.

Everything is relative. U think that porondom is an important part in ur marriage. And I don't. If I can lead a happy life without trusting the porondoms then u can do the same. Because we all are human beings and we all live in the same world.
And most importantly I believe in love and it's the only thing I'l need from my future wife. we dont need those poronodoms to understand the so called soul mate. In fact if it's not SCIENCE (as u said in the previous comment) then it should/must be magic.
I'll tell u a real story.
A boy and a girl fall in love. So they decided to inform their parents and their parents asks for the "kendara" to match the porondoms or watever. then the "Gura" said that they dont match at all. But those two people didnt believe that and ask their parents to go to another gura, all the guros told the same. Further they said that they wont live for more than 1year if they got married. So their parents didnt like this to be happened but these 2 lovers decided to marry and guess what he's my Uncle and she's my Aunt.
So I have a very good reason to dump the prondoms, that u havent

 

[greenthunder]

Everything is relative. U think that porondom is an important part in ur marriage. And I don't. If I can lead a happy life without trusting the porondoms then u can do the same. Because we all are human beings and we all live in the same world.
And most importantly I believe in love and it's the only thing I'l need from my future wife. we dont need those poronodoms to understand the so called soul mate. In fact if it's not SCIENCE (as u said in the previous comment) then it should/must be magic.
I'll tell u a real story.
A boy and a girl fall in love. So they decided to inform their parents and their parents asks for the "kendara" to match the porondoms or watever. then the "Gura" said that they dont match at all. But those two people didnt believe that and ask their parents to go to another gura, all the guros told the same. Further they said that they wont live for more than 1year if they got married. So their parents didnt like this to be happened but these 2 lovers decided to marry and guess what he's my Uncle and she's my Aunt.
So I have a very good reason to dump the prondoms, that u havent

Of course this aint no science.but something should be magic if its not science?
Your uncles and aunts parents suffer from the perception problem i mentioned earlier.Thats what the problem.And of course HOBOs(astrology wikunagena kana saththara karayo)

If you have studied astrology you would see that most well-acknowledged books state that there would be pretty dysfunctional couples or families even though they have good matching of porondams.
And most importantly i dont let porondam or horoscope to control my life like you grand parents tried dto do.If life is a road then horoscope is a torch for me that i light when i feel the need of it.


"most importantly I believe in love and it's the only thing I'l need from my future wife"

this statement speaks a lot about you.