සමාජ බය වගේ නම් ඕන එකෙක්ට අඩු වැඩි විදියට තියනව.අදාළ අවස්ථාවට attention එක නැතිව වෙන ලෝකෙක ඉන්න ගතිය , ඕවා ගොඩක් උන්ට තියනවා. උබ හිතනවා වැඩි මට හිතෙන විදියට.
Lede gana kiyapn... mata psychology gana podi danumak thiyanawaහරි හරි මම ආයෙ මගේ අසනීපෙ ගැන මොකුත් උඹලට කියන්නෙ නෑ
Hey bro. I passed 30 years in my life. Past few years I was regrating about myself been unsuccessful I stuck and worrying about things that I don't have. I compared myself with others who consider success in my field. I wished If I could have a life like others. I worried why I can't afford an even small car and why I still travelling is fXXing ahsok Layland bus. I worried what if I cannot treat my parents because I mess up everything.
But I understand the bitter truth in life by defining the success of life. We always measure success by comparing our self to others. That makes unrealistic expectation. Having high expectation in life and thriving our self to catch up promotions and salary increase and please to others. This called the rat race but society disguises as a success that causes us stressful and unhealthy toxic life.
We should look satisfaction life, not a success. So the best remedy is grateful for what we already have more than what you don't have. If you need to move up yourself use your inherited strength you have. For example, I use my courage to face any problem or admit to any novel area. Finally, achieve our goals and dreams but It doesn't matter when we able to make it. It may take one person to achieve his goal in 1 moth but the same goal could take to achieve 2 years by someone else. It doesn’t matter how long its take, in the end, we will be satisfied with accomplishment.
As I said before Maybe you drive Suzuki Indian alto. Your paycheque, not 6 figures. But the end of the day you able close your eyes with pride and say to yourself what a wonderful day was.
ඔව් මේක තමයි සීන් එක හැම එකාම හිතාගන ඉන්නේ උන්ට සිතුවිලි එන විදිහට මූටත් සිතුවිලි එනවා කියලා මූගේ මනසට සිතුවිලි එන විදිය සහ මූ ඒවට ප්රතිචාර දක්වන විදිහ වෙනස් ඒක මුගේ බ්රේන් එකෙන් එන විදිහ හැමෝම තමන්ගෙ මිම්මෙන් මැනලා මූට බනින අපහාස කරන එකෙන් මූ තව වැටෙනවා
Hey bro. I passed 30 years in my life. Past few years I was regrating about myself been unsuccessful I stuck and worrying about things that I don't have. I compared myself with others who consider success in my field. I wished If I could have a life like others. I worried why I can't afford an even small car and why I still travelling is fXXing ahsok Layland bus. I worried what if I cannot treat my parents because I mess up everything.
But I understand the bitter truth in life by defining the success of life. We always measure success by comparing our self to others. That makes unrealistic expectation. Having high expectation in life and thriving our self to catch up promotions and salary increase and please to others. This called the rat race but society disguises as a success that causes us stressful and unhealthy toxic life.
We should look satisfaction life, not a success. So the best remedy is grateful for what we already have more than what you don't have. If you need to move up yourself use your inherited strength you have. For example, I use my courage to face any problem or admit to any novel area. Finally, achieve our goals and dreams but It doesn't matter when we able to make it. It may take one person to achieve his goal in 1 moth but the same goal could take to achieve 2 years by someone else. It doesn’t matter how long its take, in the end, we will be satisfied with accomplishment.
As I said before Maybe you drive Suzuki Indian alto. Your paycheque, not 6 figures. But the end of the day you able close your eyes with pride and say to yourself what a wonderful day was.
