I think no one can, not even his wife. This is the tragedy of the Sri Lankan women working as housemaids in Middle East. I blame it on the husband. Pretty sure he doesn't have a stable job and is probably a dunkard. Also, I'm sure that he spends his wife's hard-earned on booze. These are the types of guys who cry to (threaten in this case) their wives asking for their return, and in a week or two , when the money their wives have brought runs out, start to assault them asking for money. This is what happens when people get married before they are matured enough. Remember, man is always driven by three things ; money, sex and power. Right now, he seems to have two of them; money from his wife, power over his child. What he's lacking is sex. He'll have it as soon as his wife returns, but then what happens to his want of money?. Pathetic, right?. Men like these are losers and should not be allowed to marry, or have kids, at least.