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Emios

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    mchn mata terenne ne monawa karannada kiyala.mata hematissema mage oluwa athule dial dekak innawa wage danenawa.mata 10 wasare idan wage mahana wenna asawak tiyenwa.eth anith patten man godak igena gatta porak hoda job ekak tiyenawa eth mata hematissema siyalu de anithya bawa menehi wenawa ,etakota mukuth karanna hitenne ne.mage self esteem,dreams okoma nethi wenawa e welawata.okoma boru dewal wage penna gannawa,etakota party ekakata giyama dance karannawath hitenne ne,genuta attraction nethi wenawa,kisima dekata asawak ne,etakota yaluwo athare boring dial ekak wenawa ohoma dewal wenawa,mata aduwak kiyala kiyanna deyak ne jivithe okoma wage tiyenawa onawatath wada,eth man danne ne ai mehema mata hitenne kiyala.meka kalakirimak newe,mata ehema realize wenawa hema dema...buduhmaduruwanta wuna wage...mata help ekak denna mokadda man karanna one kiyala.man depattama madi wela inne....:)
     

    johnmulder

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    machan lokuwata hithanna deyak ne. me inna tike mahansi wela weda karala sathutin jeewath wenna. apita lebila thiyana me jewithen monawahari mulu loketama penna aluth deyak karanna. nikan boru dewal hitha hitha inna epa machan. hemawelema mona hari wedaka yedenna. ethakota serama hari yaawi.
     

    akila12345

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    ලංකාව
    ඉතින් හොදයි නේ බන්...මට ඔහොම උනා නම් මන් සතුටු වෙනවා..බොරු නෙමෙයි ..අම්මපා...
     

    binoj

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    ube jiwithe gana thirana ganna one uba. mahana wela tika kalekin ekath epa wenna puluwan, eka nisa hodata hithala karana deyak karanna. mahana wennama one na hoda jiwithayak gatha karanna. uba pansil rakinawanan e hodatama athi. good luck.
     

    kinkon

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    Kandy ♕ පතිරූප දේස වාසෝ
    උබට හොඳ දැක්මක් තියෙනව සියලු දේ අනිත්‍ය බව තේරෙන්නෙ බොහොම සුලු පිරිසකට විතරයි..හැමෝම දවසක මැරෙන බවක්වත් ගොඩක් අයට තේරෙන්නෙ නෑ..උබ මහන වෙන්න ඕනි නෑ අනුන්ට හොර බොරු කරන්නෙ නැතුව දාන,පින් අතේ වැඩත් කරන් මැද මාවතේ ජීවිතේ ගෙවපන් :)
     

    mr90486

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    mchn mata terenne ne monawa karannada kiyala.mata hematissema mage oluwa athule dial dekak innawa wage danenawa.mata 10 wasare idan wage mahana wenna asawak tiyenwa.eth anith patten man godak igena gatta porak hoda job ekak tiyenawa eth mata hematissema siyalu de anithya bawa menehi wenawa ,etakota mukuth karanna hitenne ne.mage self esteem,dreams okoma nethi wenawa e welawata.okoma boru dewal wage penna gannawa,etakota party ekakata giyama dance karannawath hitenne ne,genuta attraction nethi wenawa,kisima dekata asawak ne,etakota yaluwo athare boring dial ekak wenawa ohoma dewal wenawa,mata aduwak kiyala kiyanna deyak ne jivithe okoma wage tiyenawa onawatath wada,eth man danne ne ai mehema mata hitenne kiyala.meka kalakirimak newe,mata ehema realize wenawa hema dema...buduhmaduruwanta wuna wage...mata help ekak denna mokadda man karanna one kiyala.man depattama madi wela inne....:)

    Machan you don't have to become a monk in order to let go everything. Just live your life. The important thing is don't hold on to things in your mind. Let things go from your mind. Getting away from things physically doesn't make a sense if you are attached to them in mind so try to live your life freely and normally without attachment. Take whatever as it comes. Be prepared to accept everything comes in your way. Train your mind not to get affected by the things happening around you. When you want to enjoy do it no problem. Do things for happiness of others. Help people. Don't live in the past. Let go past memories. Don't think too much of the future. You can plan the future. You can execute those plans but don't keep hopes on future. Prepared to accept what ever comes. Just live in the moment. Enjoy. Live freely. This is a difficult thing to understand and execute at first but its possible to do, and it will get easier with the practice.

    If you can go and meet siri samanthabadra thero at bellanthara siri sadhaham ashramaya. He is the person who can give the best answer to your problem. Most of the time I also think like you. But I am able to balance everything by following his sermons.

    Web site's of siri sadhaham ashramaya: http://www.ashramaya.org/index.php
    Youtube Channel : https://www.youtube.com/user/sashramaya
     
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    රඹා

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    උඹ දැන්ම මහණ වෙන්න හදිස්සි වෙන්න එපා. ඒක කරන්න ඕන හරි අදිශ්ඨානයක් ඇතුව පැහැදිලි මනසකින්. ඉස්සෙල්ල උඹ පුලුවන් හැම වෙලාවෙම පොත් පත් කියවල හොඳ හාමුදුරු කෙනෙක් එක්ක සෙට් වෙලා කතා කරල ධර්මය ඉගෙන ගනින්. කඳුබොඩ වගේ ගිහින් සතියක් විතර නැවතිලා බාවනා කරල බලපන්. ඒව උඹට සෙට් වෙනවනං මහණ වෙලා දුරක් යන්න පුලුවන් කියල ශුවර් නං උඹ ගොඩම තමයි බන්.