Marriage - Dewedha - girl - value - boy - buying? IDEAS

Guys, will you ask for dewedha?

  • Yes, I will

    Votes: 8 10.4%
  • Yes, I will, because my parents find it import

    Votes: 1 1.3%
  • No, I won't

    Votes: 57 74.0%
  • I have no idea

    Votes: 11 14.3%

  • Total voters
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niitkandy

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i say that a boy shuld giv that to a girl!! never take from girl.. u know!!
thats kinda good to socity know why.......loadz of guyz jst marry girlz bcoz of love affairs or anythin and after that they cant even afford for 3 time meals...den dey get baby.....som throw da baby...dey bcom orphans... laodz of probz...
if da boy hav to giv the gurl.....he will earn....dey want face such a situation..

and taking dat dewadha or somthin [tday onli i know dat word in sinhala] from a gurl is a gurlish work a guy do..... i say.....dey are being sold to money dey dont know dat... ape bashaven kiyanavanam!!
datz da biggest ponna weda....boys ever do!!!
 

niitkandy

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even if we dont wanna take dewadha........ our perants wants it!!
but guyz dont let them sell u!! dont be gurly...fight against dem.. no probz........ fight for ur pride!!!
 

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niitkandy said:
i say that a boy shuld giv that to a girl!! never take from girl.. u know!!
thats kinda good to socity know why.......loadz of guyz jst marry girlz bcoz of love affairs or anythin and after that they cant even afford for 3 time meals...den dey get baby.....som throw da baby...dey bcom orphans... laodz of probz...
if da boy hav to giv the gurl.....he will earn....dey want face such a situation..

and taking dat dewadha or somthin [tday onli i know dat word in sinhala] from a gurl is a gurlish work a guy do..... i say.....dey are being sold to money dey dont know dat... ape bashaven kiyanavanam!!
datz da biggest ponna weda....boys ever do!!!


I guess so, coz in sl its still that the man is the one who's earning the most for the family.

I should actually do a research in SL, but then ask question to parents oelalala they won't like it then i guess :P
 

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dj gamaya said:
dan mata mewage dewal walin wadak na................ Kelloth Epa:yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:..... Mala karadara.....................:yes::yes: Me Kello sambanda subject eka dann nam mata epa wela thiyenne.............. Dawaddath Epa

01. Dawadda dunnath wadak na kella upset wate yanawanam....
02. Dawadda nathiwa hoda kellek gattath wadak na anthimata e kella pasuthawenawa eya Badinakota mukuth genawe na kiyala..........
03. Ekko gedarin ahanawa...... habai kellage gedarin kamatten denakota api gatte natnam api sirawatama modai.............. Bcos Its Future investment.....
04. kellawa dena kota mukethma e demapiyanta denna bari unoth, kellage familiy eke kattiya duk wenawa...................................
05. Ammalawa nemene badinne........... ithin ape thiranaya thama wadagath......


Badinna yaddi Dawadda gana katha karanawata wadiya....... Wedin eka kohomada lassanata karanne......... Couple eke future plans gana Depaththema Parents la ekka katha karala wade karoth....... Oyawage dewal enne na........... mokada Families dekama ekata wada karana nisa Situation eka hugak Samabara wenawa....................


Mokada Kiyanne????????? Attada??????.......... Boruda??????????????/

Are you sure that its all based on Deweddha??
IF the girl is getting upset about this all, its a shame. We should get rid of this dewedha culture, as you name it as negative, but then also future investment?
But shouldnt it come as deweddha? Its better if male works (and girl) and earn so they can invest fromt that money for the future??!

I agree with what you say at the end!! Better to collabo and get a good start in marriage life;)
 

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