NEED your valuable advice on cheating WIFE

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NEED your valuable advice on this.

Hi EK Friends, I am married for about 2 and half year now. Have known my wife for about 5 years. Problem is, I cant stay faithful to her. Previously, I chatted with a colleague and my wife knew, she almost wanted a divorce but still she stayed with me. She said that if I did the same thing again, she could break it our marriage off. We still don't have any children btw.

Now I am kinda bored with my life. Re-installed Tinder/Wechat for fun, just to chat with some girls but ended up kinda serious (or maybe not that serious?) with one girl (with drill, of course).

I don't know what the deal is with this girl, but asking her out is not that hard. Started chatting with her last Friday or Thursday and she seemed not to eager to chat with me, last Saturday (19th) I just asked her out for fun, but she agreed so we went out on Monday night. I thought this type of girl is gonna be hard to ask out considering the amount of selfies that can be found on her Instagram account.

So on the date, we kinda hit it off. I cant tell for sure if she really likes me, cause I never know what is going on inside girl's head plus I don't want her (or even me) to be so attached to each other in case my wife suspects something. To go out with her, I lied to my wife, told her I was going out with a guy friend whom she knows quite well.

Even though it is very hard for me to go out alone without my wife, to almost anywhere, I still want to meet that girl. I am gonna lie to my wife again, so that I can go out with this girl tomorrow night.

Questions:

I know it is totally wrong, but what would you guys do if you were in my situation?

1) Keep lying to wife and dating that girl until I get bored of her?
2) Marry that girl? Since she is cute
3) Break it off and try my best to stay faithful to my wife?
4) Find another girl, be a total player?

Want to troll also can, cause I deserve it.
 
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    I'm sure that girl is also enjoying her freedom. I don't think that there will be someone really looking for a person to settle with, on those so called social platforms.

    You can go-on and become a real player and expect your wife also may end up doing the same.
     

    jodubaba

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    Catholic Wedding Vow

    "I, ___, take you, ___, to be my husband/wife. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love and honor you all the days of my life."
     

    රත්තරං

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    Hi EK Friends, I am married for about 2 and half year now. Have known my wife for about 5 years. Problem is, I cant stay faithful to her. Previously, I chatted with a colleague and my wife knew, she almost wanted a divorce but still she stayed with me. She said that if I did the same thing again, she could break it our marriage off. We still don't have any children btw.

    Now I am kinda bored with my life. Re-installed Tinder/Wechat for fun, just to chat with some girls but ended up kinda serious (or maybe not that serious?) with one girl (with drill, of course).

    I don't know what the deal is with this girl, but asking her out is not that hard. Started chatting with her last Friday or Thursday and she seemed not to eager to chat with me, last Saturday (19th) I just asked her out for fun, but she agreed so we went out on Monday night. I thought this type of girl is gonna be hard to ask out considering the amount of selfies that can be found on her Instagram account.

    So on the date, we kinda hit it off. I cant tell for sure if she really likes me, cause I never know what is going on inside girl's head plus I don't want her (or even me) to be so attached to each other in case my wife suspects something. To go out with her, I lied to my wife, told her I was going out with a guy friend whom she knows quite well.

    Even though it is very hard for me to go out alone without my wife, to almost anywhere, I still want to meet that girl. I am gonna lie to my wife again, so that I can go out with this girl tomorrow night.

    Questions:

    I know it is totally wrong, but what would you guys do if you were in my situation?

    1) Keep lying to wife and dating that girl until I get bored of her?
    2) Marry that girl? Since she is cute
    3) Break it off and try my best to stay faithful to my wife?
    4) Find another girl, be a total player?

    Want to troll also can, cause I deserve it.

    2) Marry that girl? Since she is cute ඇයි??? උබ දැන් සල්ලි වලට පෙරේතකමේ එන්සිනා වගේ එකකටද කරගහල ඉන්නේ???:rofl::rofl: බදිනකොට ජීවිතකාලෙම බලන් ඉන්න පුලුවන් ගෑනියෙක් බැදහල්ල.. නැත්නම් අසහනේ හැමදාටම


    මෙහෙමයි පුටේ... ඔය කිබි මාරුකිරිල්ලට පුරුදු උනොත් ඕකෙන් ගැලවීමක් නැති වෙනවා... ස්භාවදර්මෙත් උදව් කරන්නේ නරක පැත්තට තමයි ලේසියෙන්ම, උබටත් එකකට පස්සේ එකක් ලේසියෙන් ලැබෙයි. දවසක උබ අනාත වෙනවා මානසිකව. ලිංගික වශයෙන් අනාත වෙච්ච අනාතයෙක් වෙනවා. අන්න ඒ ෆීලින් එකෙන් එහාට උබට හොයන්න සුවයක් මේ ලෝකේ නෑ. උබට සුවයක් ලැබෙන්න තිබ්බ අන්තිම වතුර පොදත් හිදිල තියෙයි.

    ගෑනි එපානම්, උබ හරි ස්වාමිපුරුශයෙක් විදිහට හැම දේම කරද්දිත් පව් දෙනවනම් වනයක් නම් සාදාරන හේතු තියෙනවවනම් ඩිවෝර්ස් කරල දාපන්. ජීවිතේ තියෙන්නේ විදින්න මිසක් විදවන්න නෙමේ. නරි නාවන්න කාලයක් නෑ. ඒත් අම්ම කෙනෙක් වගේ හොද ගෑනියෙක්නම් ඒකිට දුකක් දෙන්න එපා. අනිවා පටිසන් දෙනවා
     

    Yahapala_Naya

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    Talk to your wife about this and come clean. If it goes bad, you certainly deserved it. If you happened to marry a woman who's okay with open relationships, you can screw around how ever you like. But know that polygamy never ends well for anyone.
    Or, forget this thing and try your best to stay faithful to your wife. If you think you can't tolerate her anymore, you should get a divorce. If you happen to be a person who just want to screw around I suggest you should limit it to prostitutes. You are the reason why this society sucks. I hope you get AIDS.
     

    no_comment

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    Break it off and kill yourself, this is the best option you have right now, so your wife and the other girl will have a happy life you fucking moron.
     

    Lokka Baba

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    Eka eka kali atha arala bandapu ganita adare karapan lamayek hadapn ethokota ubta wagema ekige jiwithetath wensk thiyewi, Hamadmaa huka huka hitiyma boring thma miniho, Ubalata ubalage jiwithen watinakmak nha mata penne, minissunta jwithe ekaakari unma epa wenwa eka ubta newe one akekuta poduyi, Wardi hadagena aluthen patan ganin jiwithe achchare.
     

    yaan

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    Stop that affair asap. Be with your wife. Be faithful to her. Be loyal to her. Mind that your Karma is watching your every move..