Personal quection

[Emios]

Machan man parentslata adarei.eth mage ammata mage kisima feeling ekak ne bn.mata podi kale idan ehemai.ammawa miss wenne ne.tattawa nan godak miss wenawa.ai ban e.dennama mata patta caring.but mata ammawa matak weddi mind eka blank kisima ehema love feeling ekak ne.

 

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[dilrasan]

egena echchara hithanna epa ban...hemoma eka wage nehe..samahara families thiyenawa parentsla and children inne yaluwo wage...hari sathutui...ehema hemoma nehe ban..

ehemai kiyala duk wenna epa..eka heti.. oka balen hadagannath behe...family life eka wikashanaya unu widiyatai issarahatath eka wikashanaya wenne..

wenasak wenna oninam eka patanganna oni oyagema kiyala family life eka patan gaththamayi...

 

[Emios]

egena echchara hithanna epa ban...hemoma eka wage nehe..samahara families thiyenawa parentsla and children inne yaluwo wage...hari sathutui...ehema hemoma nehe ban..

ehemai kiyala duk wenna epa..eka heti.. oka balen hadagannath behe...family life eka wikashanaya unu widiyatai issarahatath eka wikashanaya wenne..

wenasak wenna oninam eka patanganna oni oyagema kiyala family life eka patan gaththamayi...

Ela mchn.

 

[LazyLizard]

හැමදාම එකම විදිහට දකිනවනං අගයක් නෑ තමා ඔන්න එකපාරට සතියක් විතර ළඟ නැතිවුනොත්, බැඳලා වෙනම ගෙදරකට ගියොත්, නරකම වෙලාවේ අම්ම නැතිවුනොත් වගේ තමා ඕක දැනෙන්නේ

 

[Maithreepala]

ammage photo ekak dakinne nathuwa kiyanna amarui bn

 

[KasunKDP]

its more beautiful if u can love someone based on a rational decision rather than out of emotions or feelings...
compassionate love is more prestigious than the other forms of love...

 

[Emios]

its more beautiful if u can love someone based on a rational decision rather than out of emotions or feelings...
compassionate love is more prestigious than the other forms of love...

Yeah bro that's what i'm doing.But i don't understand the root cause for this.Now it's close to 1.5 years since i didnt see her.But i dont even miss talking to her.

 

[Pessimist]

it sounds like ur mother used to neglect u when u were small. can u describe more about how things were when u were little ?

 

[333sajith]

I spent my early childhood with servants and then alone. I have no feelings for anyone of my family. and i dont care about it.

 

[Pessimist]

I spent my early childhood with servants and then alone. I have no feelings for anyone of my family. and i dont care about it.

im asking just out of curiosity. how is ur relationships with other people ? do u have no feelings about others as well ? or is it just ur parents ?

 

[Emios]

it sounds like ur mother used to neglect u when u were small. can u describe more about how things were when u were little ?

Both treated me the same bro.Not even a slap.But i didnt like my mothers personality.i grew up with servants when i was a child most of the time.But i cant think of anything harsh thing to hate her or miss her.

 

[N sriyantha]

හැමදාම එකම විදිහට දකිනවනං අගයක් නෑ තමා ඔන්න එකපාරට සතියක් විතර ළඟ නැතිවුනොත්, බැඳලා වෙනම ගෙදරකට ගියොත්, නරකම වෙලාවේ අම්ම නැතිවුනොත් වගේ තමා ඕක දැනෙන්නේ

 

[Pessimist]

Both treated me the same bro.Not even a slap.But i didnt like my mothers personality.i grew up with servants when i was a child most of the time.But i cant think of anything harsh thing to hate her or miss her.

did ur parents switched servants suddenly perhaps u've been bonding with multiple servants within a short period ?

 

[Emios]

did ur parents switched servants suddenly perhaps u've been bonding with multiple servants within a short period ?

Yeah one or two times.Not more than that.But she was hitting them time to time for any mistakes happen to me from them.

 

[Pessimist]

Yeah one or two times.Not more than that.But she was hitting them time to time for any mistakes happen to me from them.

that could be the root course. i suggest u read some books about child psychology. specially this one would shed some light on ur problem. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/129909.The_Boy_Who_Was_Raised_as_a_Dog
it has real accounts of children who turned out to be worse than u and explains what caused them to be like that. u are lucky, or perhaps unlucky, enough not to be a sociopath.

 

[slickdeath]

Mta oke anith peththa. Mn ammata thamai godakma adare.

 

[Emios]

that could be the root course. i suggest u read some books about child psychology. specially this one would shed some light on ur problem. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/129909.The_Boy_Who_Was_Raised_as_a_Dog
it has real accounts of children who turned out to be worse than u and explains what caused them to be like that. u are lucky, or perhaps unlucky, enough not to be a sociopath.

Ok thnks brnly after you said i wonder if it realy could be the cause

 

[Pessimist]

Ok thnks brnly after you said i wonder if it realy could be the cause

bonding with people is something that needs to be learned at least partially. it's from interactions with mother, specially her sudden appearance and soothing when cried is what helps shape one's brain so that it will get pleasure in bonding. children neglected during their childhood turned out be less empathic, asocial and would have difficulties having relationships with other people.

 

[KasunKDP]

Yeah one or two times.Not more than that.But she was hitting them time to time for any mistakes happen to me from them.

she dosent deserve anyone's love...