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ruchira_jay said:
Machang, its like this...if i've led a life of a monk (no sex, etc...) and if i find my wife's not a virgin and if im naive enough to judge her based on JUST the virginity, YES, there will be an issue..

BUT, my view is, regardless whether i;ve had sex (with someone else) or not, and if my newly wedded wife is not a virgin and if she's open and humble enough to admit it, then i have NO problem with it..

It all comes down to what you expect from a women/wife...
Great macho. Ur a great guy. I admire your thoughts. :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

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    heshan123 said:
    Great macho. Ur a great guy. I admire your thoughts. :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

    No worries machang...we all human and have brains and live in 21st centuary! :yes:

    by the way, whats the deal here?.. umba langadi marry karannawath yanawada?.. ;)
     

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    ruchira_jay said:
    Machang, its like this...if i've led a life of a monk (no sex, etc...) and if i find my wife's not a virgin and if im naive enough to judge her based on JUST the virginity, YES, there will be an issue..

    BUT, my view is, regardless whether i;ve had sex (with someone else) or not, and if my newly wedded wife is not a virgin and if she's open and humble enough to admit it, then i have NO problem with it..

    It all comes down to what you expect from a women/wife...


    mmmm... Same as my thoughts... Great machang...

    If all the people can think like this, there wont be many issues in the families...

    Just think about it guys.. WE ARE THE FUTURE...!!!
    WE CAN CHANGE OUR MINDSETS...!!!

    I am doing it machang... I'm not just telling... but I'm doing it... ;)
     

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    Pata said:
    Sudu Malli.. :lol: :lol: :lol: ... Man Pata ban.. I'm well over 21...:yes: The reason why I say you should not go to the extreme is because by any chance if your relationship gets broken then you don't wanna be putting a girl's future in danger.. You Know Sri Lankan culture is different... Society don't expect sex before marriage..
    :yes: tru
     

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    nAPs2JAAN said:
    sex is something that important 4 lovers.it doesn't mean that all lovers should have sex b4 marriage but if both agree i mean if both feel like doing so its ok to have some cz it can make the relationship more stronger and always it will be a sweet memory for a couple. but marriage is the most important thin in a life for a couple as i think.
    so what i recommend is to do big things after the marriage.
    bt never do sex with a guy or a girl that u r not sure of marring bcz that will be a very very bad memory if u marry some1 els later on ur life :)
    haha BIG things :lol:;);)
     

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    ruchira_jay said:
    No worries machang...we all human and have brains and live in 21st centuary! :yes:

    by the way, whats the deal here?.. umba langadi marry karannawath yanawada?.. ;)
    Oh no macho. Im still 21. :D :D
    Just curious to know what u guys think about this issue. Thanks for the comments macho. :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
     

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    MCLINER said:
    so watz ur final decesion??

    having or nt b4 marriage ?? :D;);)
    Well im still looking forward to make that decision. Hope to see more posts for the thread. I will surely answer ur question soon. The thing is im also not 100% sure at any option as at for the moment. Would u do it before marriage ?
     

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    heshan123 said:
    Well im still looking forward to make that decision. Hope to see more posts for the thread. I will surely answer ur question soon. The thing is im also not 100% sure at any option as at for the moment. Would u do it before marriage ?
    hehe as naps and x-pert said BIG things aftr da marriage...hahaha
     

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    hehe as naps and x-pert said BIG things aftr da marriage...hahaha


    What what ...????

    Where did I say something like that...???? :confused: :confused:

    What I'm telling is... It is ok to have sex before marriage as it is a basic human need...

    And as males, we shouldn't check for it after marrying a girl.. Whether she is a virgin or not, it shouldn't be a problem for their relationship...

    And before marrying also, if the two people like to have it..... then have it... whats the big deal about it....??
     

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    heshan123 said:
    Did x-pert ayya say the same thing? Naps said that 'big things should come after marriage'. But not sure about x-pert ayya. :confused: :confused:


    Mekage tikak nut loose wenawa bung idala hitala.. hehe
    :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
     

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    x-pert said:
    What what ...????

    Where did I say something like that...???? :confused: :confused:

    What I'm telling is... It is ok to have sex before marriage as it is a basic human need...

    And as males, we shouldn't check for it after marrying a girl.. Whether she is a virgin or not, it shouldn't be a problem for their relationship...

    And before marrying also, if the two people like to have it..... then have it... whats the big deal about it....??
    ya itz nt prob if da boy is goin 2 marry her fr sure....if nt da gal's lyf is in dangr
     

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    ahh ya ya

    but he did mean it


    No machang.. what I told is... there wont be a much difference between before and after marriage, if you have done it earlier....

    But its upto the couple to decide.. Deffinitely it will increase the sensation of love and after having it both will have a bond which cant be broken easily... even the parents cant break it then.... (Just my ex...)