Hey hey come on man. Chill. I was just kiddin. Come back.nAPs2JAAN said:![]()
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Hey hey come on man. Chill. I was just kiddin. Come back.nAPs2JAAN said:![]()
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Great macho. Ur a great guy. I admire your thoughts.ruchira_jay said:Machang, its like this...if i've led a life of a monk (no sex, etc...) and if i find my wife's not a virgin and if im naive enough to judge her based on JUST the virginity, YES, there will be an issue..
BUT, my view is, regardless whether i;ve had sex (with someone else) or not, and if my newly wedded wife is not a virgin and if she's open and humble enough to admit it, then i have NO problem with it..
It all comes down to what you expect from a women/wife...

heshan123 said:Great macho. Ur a great guy. I admire your thoughts.![]()
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i was in a call dude u knowheshan123 said:Hey hey come on man. Chill. I was just kiddin. Come back.![]()
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ruchira_jay said:Machang, its like this...if i've led a life of a monk (no sex, etc...) and if i find my wife's not a virgin and if im naive enough to judge her based on JUST the virginity, YES, there will be an issue..
BUT, my view is, regardless whether i;ve had sex (with someone else) or not, and if my newly wedded wife is not a virgin and if she's open and humble enough to admit it, then i have NO problem with it..
It all comes down to what you expect from a women/wife...

Pata said:Sudu Malli..![]()
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... Man Pata ban.. I'm well over 21...
The reason why I say you should not go to the extreme is because by any chance if your relationship gets broken then you don't wanna be putting a girl's future in danger.. You Know Sri Lankan culture is different... Society don't expect sex before marriage..
truhaha BIG thingsnAPs2JAAN said:sex is something that important 4 lovers.it doesn't mean that all lovers should have sex b4 marriage but if both agree i mean if both feel like doing so its ok to have some cz it can make the relationship more stronger and always it will be a sweet memory for a couple. but marriage is the most important thin in a life for a couple as i think.
so what i recommend is to do big things after the marriage.
bt never do sex with a guy or a girl that u r not sure of marring bcz that will be a very very bad memory if u marry some1 els later on ur life![]()



Oh no macho. Im still 21.ruchira_jay said:No worries machang...we all human and have brains and live in 21st centuary!
by the way, whats the deal here?.. umba langadi marry karannawath yanawada?..![]()

so watz ur final decesion??heshan123 said:Oh no macho. Im still 21.![]()
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Well im still looking forward to make that decision. Hope to see more posts for the thread. I will surely answer ur question soon. The thing is im also not 100% sure at any option as at for the moment. Would u do it before marriage ?MCLINER said:so watz ur final decesion??
having or nt b4 marriage ??![]()
hehe as naps and x-pert said BIG things aftr da marriage...hahahaheshan123 said:Well im still looking forward to make that decision. Hope to see more posts for the thread. I will surely answer ur question soon. The thing is im also not 100% sure at any option as at for the moment. Would u do it before marriage ?
Did x-pert ayya say the same thing? Naps said that 'big things should come after marriage'. But not sure about x-pert ayya.MCLINER said:hehe as naps and x-pert said BIG things aftr da marriage...hahaha

MCLINER said:hehe as naps and x-pert said BIG things aftr da marriage...hahaha
ahh ya yaheshan123 said:Did x-pert ayya say the same thing? Naps said that 'big things should come after marriage'. But not sure about x-pert ayya.![]()
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heshan123 said:Did x-pert ayya say the same thing? Naps said that 'big things should come after marriage'. But not sure about x-pert ayya.![]()
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ya itz nt prob if da boy is goin 2 marry her fr sure....if nt da gal's lyf is in dangrx-pert said:What what ...????
Where did I say something like that...????![]()
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What I'm telling is... It is ok to have sex before marriage as it is a basic human need...
And as males, we shouldn't check for it after marrying a girl.. Whether she is a virgin or not, it shouldn't be a problem for their relationship...
And before marrying also, if the two people like to have it..... then have it... whats the big deal about it....??
MCLINER said:ahh ya ya
but he did mean it
ne ban ubath kiwwe ewage 1kne....BIG THINGS SHOULD COME AFTR MARRIAGE kiyala nokiwwatax-pert said:Mekage tikak nut loose wenawa bung idala hitala.. hehe
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