Girlfriend issues

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Me and my gf is fighting at least once a week. Maybe 2,3 times a week. I think she doesn't trust me. But I haven't done anything wrong.

She is my first girlfriend. But I'm not her first. I don't even have female friends. I don't talk to any other females but in special exception. I used to, a bit. But I stopped it because she doesn't like it. She scolded me and told me to unfriend all my female Facebook friends. (She doesn't use Facebook) And I did it. But she's still over protective. This is bothering me so much.

One time we were watching a movie. I was happy for a while. But here comes the big problem. She doesn't want me to watch female characters in the movie. I was like "what the fuck" Then we started fighting again. And I never got to see the movie.

She has very close male friends. She talks with them, like everyday. I got mad at her for it. I told her to stop and she was like, "Okay!" But she didn't stop it. But whenever I talk to some girl she gets mad.

Dear Elakiriyans. What I should do about his. I'm feeling helpless. Please don't take it as a joke. I cannot use original account because I have a lot of friends here. So don't make fun of me.

Thank you for your time.
 
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    Me and my gf is fighting at least once a week. Maybe 2,3 times a week. I think she doesn't trust me. But I haven't done anything wrong.

    She is my first girlfriend. But I'm not her first. I don't even have female friends. I don't talk to any other females but in special exception. I used to, a bit. But I stopped it because she doesn't like it. She scolded me and told me to unfriend all my female Facebook friends. (She doesn't use Facebook) And I did it. But she's still over protective. This is bothering me so much.

    One time we were watching a movie. I was happy for a while. But here comes the big problem. She doesn't want me to watch female characters in the movie. I was like "what the fuck" Then we started fighting again. And I never got to see the movie.

    She has very close male friends. She talks with them, like everyday. I got mad at her for it. I told her to stop and she was like, "Okay!" But she didn't stop it. But whenever I talk to some girl she gets mad.

    Dear Elakiriyans. What I should do about his. I'm feeling helpless. Please don't take it as a joke. I cannot use original account because I have a lot of friends here. So don't make fun of me.

    Thank you for your time.


    I think You Should Change Your mind :):):)
     

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    අදාල නෑනේ
    මමයි මගේ කෙල්ලයි අඩුගානේ සතියකට සැරයක් හරි රන්ඩුකරගන්නවා. සමහර විට සතියට 2,3න් වතාවක්වත්.මන් හිතන්නේ එයා මාව විශ්වාස කරන්නේ නෑ. ඒත් මම වැරදි දෙයක් කරලා නෑ.

    එයා මගෙ මුල්ම කෑල්ල.ඒ උනාට මගේ මුල් එක නෙමෙයි. මට අඩුගානේ ගෑනු යාලුවොවත් නෑ. මම වෙන කෙල්ලොත් එක්ක කතා කරත් සාමාන්‍ය දෙයකට විතරයි. මම කතා කරා. ඒත් කෙල්ල දැන් කැමති නැතිනිසා ඒකත් නැවැත්තුවා. එයා මට බැනලා මගේ fb එකේ හිටපු කෙල්ලෝ ටිකත් unfriend කරා.(එයා fb පාවිච්චි නෑ) මම කරනවා. ඒත් එයා තාමත් ඕනවට වඩා හොයනවා. මේක මට වදයක් වෙලා තියෙන්නේ.

    එක පාරක් අපි දෙන්නා film එකක් බලන්න ගියා. මන් ආසාවෙන් බැලුවා. ඒත් ටික වෙලාවක් යනකොට ආයේ ප්‍රශ්න. එයා මට හිටපු female කැරැක්ටර් දිහා බලන්න දෙන්නේ නෑ ඒපාර. මට නිකන් "මොන හුත්*ක්ද මේ". ආයේ රන්ඩුකරන්න පටන් ගත්තා. මට ආයේ ඒක බලන්න උනේ නෑ.

    එයාට ලගම පිරිමි යාලුවො දෙතුන් දෙනෙක් ඉන්නවා. එයා එයාලත් එක්ක කතා කරනවා හැමදාම වගේ. මට ඒකට තරහා ගියා. මම කිව්වා එහෙම කතා කරන එක නවත්තන්න කියලා. එයා හා කිව්වට නැවැත්තුවේ නෑ. ඒත් මම ඒක කරොත් මාත් එක්ක රන්ඩු.

    එලකිරි මචන්ලා. මම මේකට මොකක්ද කරන්න ඕන. මෙක විහිලුවක් කරගන්න එපා. මට මගේ original account එක පාවිච්චි කරන්න බෑ. ඒකේ මගේ ගොඩක් යාලුවෝ ඉන්නවා. ඒක නිසා මාව විහිලුවට ගන්න එපා.

    ස්තූතියි
     
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    crazybuddy

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    ගහප්පයිං ඒකිට.. මොන හුත්තක්ද ඒ..
    ඒකි උඹ කියන ඒවා අහන්නෑ..
    උඹ ඒකි කියන ඒවා අහන්න ඕන..
    අනික ලව් කියන්නෙ නීති දාලා වැටකොටු බැදලා රැකගන්න පුලුවන් දෙයක් නෙමේ..
    ඔහොම වෙන්නෙ විශ්වාසය අඩු උනාමයි..
    ඒකිට උඹ ගැන තඹේක විස්වාසයක් නෑ..
    වැඩක් නෑ ඉතිං එහෙම බැදීමකින්..

    බදින්න කලින් ඔහොම නම් බැන්දම කොහොම වෙයිද..
    දැන්ම එලවල දාපං..
    ඒකිට සයිකො..
    :lol:

     

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    උබත් කියපන් කොල්ලෝ ආශ්‍රය නවත්තන්ඩ කියල
    එහෙම කියල අහන්නේ නැත්තන් පුකට පයින් එකක් එලවලා වෙන කෙල්ලෙක් හොයා ගනින්
     

    Ridila™

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    ඇයි එන්නද.?
    Me and my gf is fighting at least once a week. Maybe 2,3 times a week. I think she doesn't trust me. But I haven't done anything wrong.

    She is my first girlfriend. But I'm not her first. I don't even have female friends. I don't talk to any other females but in special exception. I used to, a bit. But I stopped it because she doesn't like it. She scolded me and told me to unfriend all my female Facebook friends. (She doesn't use Facebook) And I did it. But she's still over protective. This is bothering me so much.

    One time we were watching a movie. I was happy for a while. But here comes the big problem. She doesn't want me to watch female characters in the movie. I was like "what the fuck" Then we started fighting again. And I never got to see the movie.

    She has very close male friends. She talks with them, like everyday. I got mad at her for it. I told her to stop and she was like, "Okay!" But she didn't stop it. But whenever I talk to some girl she gets mad.

    Dear Elakiriyans. What I should do about his. I'm feeling helpless. Please don't take it as a joke. I cannot use original account because I have a lot of friends here. So don't make fun of me.

    Thank you for your time.

    main reason.

    Better kick her ass and find a better one. she is a sort of a psychopath
     
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    ijay

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    kellage photo ekakwath balanne nathuwa answer ekak denna amarui :)

    p.m ekak dapan. .dont post public..not a joke . ..lets see what i can say with her body language :rolleyes:
     

    London Mahathun

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    Me and my gf is fighting at least once a week. Maybe 2,3 times a week. I think she doesn't trust me. But I haven't done anything wrong.

    She is my first girlfriend. But I'm not her first. I don't even have female friends. I don't talk to any other females but in special exception. I used to, a bit. But I stopped it because she doesn't like it. She scolded me and told me to unfriend all my female Facebook friends. (She doesn't use Facebook) And I did it. But she's still over protective. This is bothering me so much.

    One time we were watching a movie. I was happy for a while. But here comes the big problem. She doesn't want me to watch female characters in the movie. I was like "what the fuck" Then we started fighting again. And I never got to see the movie.

    She has very close male friends. She talks with them, like everyday. I got mad at her for it. I told her to stop and she was like, "Okay!" But she didn't stop it. But whenever I talk to some girl she gets mad.

    Dear Elakiriyans. What I should do about his. I'm feeling helpless. Please don't take it as a joke. I cannot use original account because I have a lot of friends here. So don't make fun of me.

    Thank you for your time.
    brather, this siims laik projecting. may bi shi is gilty of somthin and shi is projectin her guilt on you brather,

    brather, you rialy niid to start to tolk to oder garls brather,

    shi no respet you brather.

    ol in
    ol brather, you to niid gro some bols brather,
     
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    potatotharaka

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    theres an old adage machan. when your significant other always has trust issues, he/she is the one whos cheating. In this case im quite certain that your nut of a girlfriend is.


    my only advice to is to grow a pair. don't show any weakness to women, once they see that they have the upperhand they will put you in under their thumb for life.

    btw how old are you?