Most women let go things that they don't want to hold back macho. Its us who couldn't erase past memories even after taking some drugs for so long. It's been almost 2 years and couldn't help myself anymore on this.
Worst scenario is you lost her because of your fault and your soul witnesses you for what happened up to this moment. I make sure she's in safe hands before I pull myself outta connection between us. I'm totally positive that she's having a perfect life now. Did what I could do to keep her safe and that is the only reason that I can recall and reduce pain in my mind.May she get what she wish and may all other living beings never ever get this pain of letting go their loved ones!
I think it's the natural instinct that we suffer more for.It is the nature of the male to protect and owning the female at any cost.So once another male come closer to her or she look down on you or she thinks you are not good then huge worry,anger and frustration arises.It's a threat to the masculinity inside you.This is what most males suffer for,they just cannot handle the defeat.
මොනවා කොරන්ටද! 
best way to get over an breakup is anger , 
එකත් එක්ක ඉන්නවා
