Machan I think she is one in a million type of woman.I'm telling because she never gave up her previous love for quite some time even though she married you. It takes guts man. Holding in to her love. I mean that's just amazing thing. After sometime she start getting used to your love. She understood that she cant go back. So now she is trying to make up her mind.
I will give you few advises. Just do as she likes. If she ask you to go some where go. If she ask you to keep silence. keep silence. If she tries to mingled with you let her do it. We are all humans machan and we can change over the time. I think she is in the process of adopting to you. It takes loads of courage to do so macho. I believed every word she said. Just give her as much time she needs. I mean tell me what is love man. It is about understanding the other person and making compromises at your end to make that special person happy.
So I wish you all the best and I sure one day you will have one awesome story to tell your grand children. Best of luck macho!
it is unfair for him...why should he sacrifice. Drop her home but dont divorce her.... enjoy your life with some one you like. If she really cares she will come back and you can take her. No one force you. Or she might be a lesbian...simple as that