please help me i'm so along

[awjas2621]

machan. oya mano widye wereyek, hari docte kenek gawete yanne,natham wadihitiyek gen upedes ganne.lage panseleke gihn hamuduru namkgen bana tikak ahala hithe hadaganne balanne,ahanne,oke darunu athete harenne kalin,oya okete behth ganne ona,machan beheth gaththame oye lede hariyanewa,matath fedup gathiye dannewa,eth thame paluwak num dannene naha,mate 28 ai wayese..thamth badinnath hithak naha..ewa passen duwanne naha, labene welawete labei,mame num hithe hadgene,lade deyin sathutuwenne thama puruduwenne..api katath tikak hari manesike lede thiyenwa, owate behth thiyenewa..wadikal yawanne epa, ademe okete piliyamk yodanne lasthiwenne...parent latha kiyela...oya igennea thiyenewa, mode wade apaye yane wade keranne epa,budhimathwe hithela wadekeranne,hithe shakthimath keregene inne..wadiye hithete ganne epa..oke sulu ledak wenne puluwan..paluwe dannewate mowahari deyak keranna.gedera tv balanne,hobby keranne,paththera,poth kiyewanne..game,sport,thaniyme innath purudu wenne ona, ekath sathutak kereganne,hithehadegene,hamedeme sathutak kerganna macho.. etc..aniwa doctor dene beheth biwaame oye lede gathiye saneepe wenewa,prbodemath wenewa,epawene gathiye tike tike mage harenewa,kohomehari doc kenekte appoi ekak daala wade keranne, mama ape doc kenekge number ekak sms kerannam...eya gawete gihin oya wisthere kiyela,mano docter kenek ge namak ganne..naththam eyame treat kerai..eyage gedera numbreth thiyenewa,kath dennam..

* eth lokume behethe oyai,thamamai,thamange hithai,oyge maneseai,oya hithe planeyak keregene hithehadaganne balann macho..ladedeyin sathutuwenne,rate hari yanne uthsaha keranna..lankawen pitwela giyamath oye gathiye arenne puluwan..samjeye aseraye keranne ...monhari sports,swim,Jim,hobby keranne..athithye gane hithela duk wenneth epa, ewa ametheke kerela, sathutin inne balanna..the buddhist eke bana hamedame ahanne oyge hithe nittaweteme suwe wei..hode yaaluwo tikak set kerganna..kisimeyak onawete wada hithanne yanne epa,sahlluwen inne ona..

be happy, smile,Don't be afraid...

budusarenai..devipihitai..

 

[twisted]

me too advocate suicide. only thing is that one person committing suicide can result in agony for many others. but he shouldn't continue living only because other would get affected as a result of his action. There is a moral ambiguity there.

what is morality really? morality itself is ambiguous (if you are without religion like me that is)..things are moral as long as you make them to be..I'm not suggesting we should be selfish..there are just acts, they are not categorized into good or bad deeds.

but is there a greater sacrifice in life than living a life time of hardship to make others happy? isn't that rather selfish of the society to expect that from somebody when they can't even understand this person?

 

[gihand4r]

I tend to see death not as the horrifying end to life which is full misery anyways as you all seem to see..I see it as the only hope.

I don't think nobody is supposed to put up with the shit life gives without any clear purpose or meaning ahead, if you are free from all the mortal bonds on earth, I don't see what's stopping you from taking a short cut to that hopeful end.
I know nobody else can fix my problems..but most of all, I give no fuck.

exactly that's how i look at death too.. when i feel sad and lonely i used to cut myself. it helps.. and it's not that i feel lonely bcz i dont hv anyone. i have lot of friends.lot of people i can talk to. a girl who loves me. but for some reason even with them al caring bvt me i feel like im all alone.. like i said before i cant figure out a reason to live. because at the end everyone will die. what we did how we lived wont matter... so there's no point to suffer in this world for so many years...

 

[gihand4r]

so next nature gives you a lower rebirth which there is less mental pain.Most probably animal realm.

getting be an animal is better than been a human..i'd take that over this shit anyday

 

[twisted]

exactly that's how i look at death too.. when i feel sad and lonely i used to cut myself. it helps.. and it's not that i feel lonely bcz i dont hv anyone. i have lot of friends.lot of people i can talk to. a girl who loves me. but for some reason even with them al caring bvt me i feel like im all alone.. like i said before i cant figure out a reason to live. because at the end everyone will die. what we did how we lived wont matter... so there's no point to suffer in this world for so many years...

I had a pic of my arm just like that all the scars are now healed though..dude, there is no better anti depressant than a bit of self mutilation..it's strange the kind of solace you can find in a blade it's better than drugs, booze or sex when you are fuckedup depressed.

some say depression is anger without enthusiasm..it may be true..rage stack up in your mind against the cruelty of life or it's mysteries whatever.. I can't quite place the effect cutting up your arm has on your mood, but it works like a charm.

if you have no reason to live, then you're already dead..this is something people who got reasons to live cannot wrap their heads around.

btw, you did this with not a blade but a razor right? shallow cut, just deep enough to bleed out just enough to comfort you but not too deep so that you may not actually have to get help to stop bleeding.

 

[dildude]

exactly that's how i look at death too.. when i feel sad and lonely i used to cut myself. it helps.. and it's not that i feel lonely bcz i dont hv anyone. i have lot of friends.lot of people i can talk to. a girl who loves me. but for some reason even with them al caring bvt me i feel like im all alone.. like i said before i cant figure out a reason to live. because at the end everyone will die. what we did how we lived wont matter... so there's no point to suffer in this world for so many years...

mind is very complex thing. Mind is not you, but you think mind is you. Didn't you meet a psychiatric ? May be a good one can help you. I also suffering with tension type headache all the time which I think caused by generalized anxiety and stress.
Now I'm planning to change my place and find an office job. I think that will help me to change the current mind stream and cure my headache
Who knows, but there have to be a solution.

 

[Rage Guy]

exactly that's how i look at death too.. when i feel sad and lonely i used to cut myself. it helps.. and it's not that i feel lonely bcz i dont hv anyone. i have lot of friends.lot of people i can talk to. a girl who loves me. but for some reason even with them al caring bvt me i feel like im all alone.. like i said before i cant figure out a reason to live. because at the end everyone will die. what we did how we lived wont matter... so there's no point to suffer in this world for so many years...

Why you need a reason to live?If you found the reason you would have choose death before you go to school even.It is because there is no purpose or reason life is beautiful.endless possibilities.If there was a reason given that would be the end.If life told you your goal in this life is to be an university professor,the moment you born into this world you would choose suicide hearing that.We would be quite peaceful if we were below the intellect like animals.But for evolution reason now we are capable of creating thoughts.Humans just cannot handle this endless thoughts.This is the reason for all these emptiness and mental suffering.To go below the intellect you smoke,drink,over eat etc because intellect damn hurts.you have two choices either be below the intellect,or go above the intellect.If you are in the intellect it's nonstop suffering.

 

[Rage Guy]

I also suffering with tension type headache all the time which I think caused by generalized anxiety and stress.
.

You are suffering the thought process.Processor is 100% all the time,that is why the tension in the forehead.GAD is the physical manifestation of the mental tension.Work in the garden or as you said focusing on office work will reduce this.If you can end the thought process there would be no anxiety or tension.

 

[Rage Guy]

getting be an animal is better than been a human..i'd take that over this shit anyday

I second that too.They only capable of feeling physical suffering.Which is quite a good existence than that of a human.When did the last time physicality hurts you.80% of the time it is the mental suffering.Nature has given human the ability to be anything they wish to be.But the humans just can't handle the sudden onset advanced evolution,because still human dna is 99.1% matchable to that of a monkey.Now the nature has given the knife to monkey.That is why all this suffering.

 

[gihand4r]

 

[I_Simon]

http://www.srilankasumithrayo.org/

 

[KasunKDP]

what is morality really? morality itself is ambiguous (if you are without religion like me that is)..things are moral as long as you make them to be..I'm not suggesting we should be selfish..there are just acts, they are not categorized into good or bad deeds.

but is there a greater sacrifice in life than living a life time of hardship to make others happy? isn't that rather selfish of the society to expect that from somebody when they can't even understand this person?

yeah i think it's up to the intending person to decide as other aren't in any position to judge what's going inside his mind.

 

[awjas2621]

hithin mai api me prasne athikerganne, hithin hithela me puluwan mekete bethak hoyagnna..try kerela balanne, man kiyenwate the buddhist eke bane tikak ahanne hamaedame..oke arila yai..naththam ithin docte gawete thama yanne one..mamai ape ammai oke bana hamdame ahanewa..pudume sanseemak dannewa,owate beheth buddha darmyen hoygene, dangene, darmyen sansenne puluwan..darmike jeewathwenne,hithanne,pansal yanne..hamoteme udaw keranne.smaje sewa wadewela yedenna..udete haweste oyaame pahan paththu kerela budun wadinne,bawena wage dewal keranne,pin athe wade keranne ,oyate lokume sansseme labeai...darmeyak nathiwunhame thama,oye wge hithe duruwela wela,manseikewe watenne,anike nikan gederte wela hityame arewa mewa kallpena kerala eke eke lede hadenewa,mokakhari wadeke yedenne ona,buddha darmeye therum ganime,awebode kergneeme hare oyate wene pihitak,piliyemak naha , anith dewal thawe kalike wisedum wenne puluwan..darmyen hithe hadagnaa,eye sadkalike wisedumak wei oya bandath naththath kawedhari thniyeme shakthimwe jeewithete face kerela,jeewath wenne ona..thamage seven thamamai, snthusti paraman danum,atelo dahmin kapa nowene sithak athikereganne machan.

 

[pradeeplk1025]

කට්ටිය එක්ක සෙට් වෙලා බජව් දාපන්. ෆන් එකේ හිටහන්. කෙල්ලොන්ව ආශ්‍රය කරපන්. ට්‍රිප් යමන්. හැමෝම බං තනියි තමයි මේ ලෝකේ. සමූහයක් වශයෙන් තමයි පවතින්නේ. එක්කනෙක්ට එක්කනෙක්ගේ උදව් උපකාර ඕන. ප්‍රිය අයගෙන් වෙන් වෙන්න වගේම අප්‍රිය උන් එක්ක එක් වෙන්නත් සිද්ධ වෙනව. කෙටියෙන් කිව්ව දේ විස්තර විදියට තේරුම් ගනින් මචෝ.

 

[HKavinda]

BUMP​

 

[AshenTM]

මානසික වෛද්‍යවරයෙක් හම්බවෙන්න. හැමෝටම ඔහොම දේවල් වෙන්න පුලුවන්. කාන්සාව ඇති වෙන්න ඕනෙ කෙනෙක්ට පුලුවන්. නිකන් ඔහොම හිටියොත් උබටත් අර ස්කූර්වි වගෙ පිස්සු හැදෙයි.

ජොබ් වලට දාන්න. බැරි වෙන එකක් නෑ ජොබක් හොයාගන්නත්.

මේ විදියට කරන්න.......... නැත්නම් මහණ වෙන්න

 

[tcgunarathena]

ඕවා ගණන් ගන්න එපා ලොක්කා. හිතට ධෛර්‍ය අරගන්න. තමුන්ට ගොඩ යන්න අනිවා ක්‍රමයක් තියෙනවා කියල හිතන්න. අනිත් අය හිනා වෙන්න බලන් ඉන්නේ. ඒ නිසා ඒක තේරුම් අරන් උපේක්ෂා සහගතව වැඩ කරපන්. උබට ගොඩ යන්න පුළුවන්. උබට උබේ හිත පාලනය කර ගන්න අමාරු නම් ඩොකෙක් ගාවට යන්න. උබ අද ඉදන් මම ජීවත් වෙනවා කියල හිතන්න. උබට සියළු යහපත උදා ‍වේවා. හිතට ධෛර්ය ගනින්. උබට පුළුවන්.

එකිටත් දැන් වැලේ වැල් නැති සින් එකක් නේද තියෙන්නේ...

 

[සොහොන]

බම්ප්

 

[yakshaya]

Why you need a reason to live?If you found the reason you would have choose death before you go to school even.It is because there is no purpose or reason life is beautiful.endless possibilities.If there was a reason given that would be the end.If life told you your goal in this life is to be an university professor,the moment you born into this world you would choose suicide hearing that.We would be quite peaceful if we were below the intellect like animals.But for evolution reason now we are capable of creating thoughts.Humans just cannot handle this endless thoughts.This is the reason for all these emptiness and mental suffering.To go below the intellect you smoke,drink,over eat etc because intellect damn hurts.you have two choices either be below the intellect,or go above the intellect.If you are in the intellect it's nonstop suffering.

on the subject of suicide and a previous point on rebirth in Buddhism, I wonder if someone to suicide as early as he can, wouldn't that shorten the bad karma he otherwise might accumulate during that lifetime. So in other words, you try not to do bad stuff but try to suicide as and when possible, so your bad karma will not increase. kind of the extreme version of letting go. btw very interesting discussion.

to kristyrathnayaka - machan umba karanna asa dewal thianawada. api eh gana katha karamu. samahara wita umba wagema hithana thawath aya athi. eyalath andura ganna puluwan. api hamoma ekinekata wenas eka hinda umba job karanne nah thaniyama inne kiana ewa wadagath nah. umbata sathutu hithena karanna asa de develop karamu.

 

[yakshaya]

එකිටත් දැන් වැලේ වැල් නැති සින් එකක් නේද තියෙන්නේ...

printing mistake ekak "welawakata loku පොල්ලක් danenawa"