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Henry L

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I mean for the people around you :)

owning puppies is like an open invitation for a heartache :(

aa ok :)
Yeah true, I am not that fond of owning puppies either :) I am in dire need of a life partner more than a puppy tbh :P but at the same time I feel like better to be alone for some more time than having the burden of a woman or rather another person I should say in life where you'll have to worry about more problems.. but still :dull:
 
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    aa ok :)
    Yeah true, I am not that fond of owning puppies either :) I am in dire need of a life partner more than a puppy tbh :P but at the same time I feel like better to be alone for some more time than having the burden of a woman in life where you'll have to worry about more problems.. but still :dull:

    You can probably find somebody who's masochist type you see..so you get a gf and a puppy at the same time :) might be fun :P
     

    Henry L

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    it's not a medical condition :D what if even if it was ..people always label off everything that is not within the limits of so called normality :growl::(:rolleyes::oo::lol::P:love:

    I know what you mean so I guess lets not go there, cause again we are going to have an endless or rather pointless discussion :D

    Do you know by any chance how to approach a woman you are soo in love with but far away physically and from other stuff? :) Heard you know about true love more than anyone else out here :rolleyes:
     

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    I know what you mean so I guess lets not go there, cause again we are going to have an endless or rather pointless discussion :D

    Do you know by any chance how to approach a woman you are soo in love with but far away physically and from other stuff? :) Heard you know about true love more than anyone else out here :rolleyes:

    discussions are always pointless :D

    I don't really know men..I guess you'll have to work your way in..knowing the girl better than anybody else you should be able to pick your entry :) but I'd always be honest and speak my mind if I were you with her..I guess we are too old now for senseless flirting and likely approaches, so it's always better to speak your mind if you are sure it's going to work between the the two of you :)
     

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    discussions are always pointless :D

    I don't really know men..I guess you'll have to work your way in..knowing the girl better than anybody else you should be able to pick your entry :) but I'd always be honest and speak my mind if I were you with her..I guess we are too old now for senseless flirting and likely approaches, so it's always better to speak your mind if you are sure it's going to work between the the two of you :)

    Yeah man thats really the worrying thing,, :oo: You can't be 100% sure whether its gonna work or not without committing right? :dull: Yeah sure one can speak to their mind and ask themselves whether its gonna work or not, but we can't come in to a speculation in that way can we? :dull: at times I feel like Oh its gonna work and then Oh no no its not gonna work :dull: unless you really get to know that person by having some sort of relationship or something for a lengthy period its really hard right? :oo: but then there are proposals which turn out to be great partners :dull: I guess its luck or may be fate or I don't know :dull: no matter what ever you have in life or how handsome/beautiful or successful you are, if you both don't get along each other then there is no point noh :dull:
     

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    Yeah man thats really the worrying thing,, :oo: You can't be 100% sure whether its gonna work or not without committing right? :dull: Yeah sure one can speak to their mind and ask themselves whether its gonna work or not, but we can't come in to a speculation in that way can we? :dull: at times I feel like Oh its gonna work and then Oh no no its not gonna work :dull: unless you really get to know that person by having some sort of relationship or something for a lengthy period its really hard right? :oo: but then there are proposals which turn out to be great partners :dull: I guess its luck or may be fate or I don't know :dull: no matter what ever you have in life or how handsome/beautiful or successful you are, if you both don't get along each other then there is no point noh :dull:

    well, you will never know this unless you try it right? don't let your fears hold you back man, just go for it ( be ready for a little heart ache just in case though) but I'm sure it will pay off well one way or the other.

    If she's willing as well, why don't the two of you give it a go and see where it takes you? relationships after all are all about two parties making compromises to make it work, if you are in love (curse that is) you will forego imperfections of your partner probably thinking of them as the most wonderful things created by the almighty god..

    also, no amount of years can really get you to know your partner fully..because people always change..some people don't though, it's again as the luck has it..

    This is not without chances of you getting hurt or ending up in a bad position. but if you don't take that chance, you will always live in doubt. so I guess its always better to have loved and lost than not loved at all..

    and if it doesn't work, you can always fall in love with the bottle :love: and discover, as I so frequently have, that true love does come in bottles.


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    Henry L

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    well, you will never know this unless you try it right? don't let your fears hold you back man, just go for it ( be ready for a little heart ache just in case though) but I'm sure it will pay off well one way or the other.

    If she's willing as well, why don't the two of you give it a go and see where it takes you? relationships after all are all about two parties making compromises to make it work, if you are in love (curse that is) you will forego imperfections of your partner probably thinking of them as the most wonderful things created by the almighty god..

    also, no amount of years can really get you to know your partner fully..because people always change..some people don't though, it's again as the luck has it..

    This is not without chances of you getting hurt or ending up in a bad position. but if you don't take that chance, you will always live in doubt. so I guess its always better to have loved and lost than not loved at all..

    and if it doesn't work, you can always fall in love with the bottle :love: and discover, as I so frequently have, that true love does come in bottles.

    This is something I had in my mind for few years now. wasn't really ready to commit back then.Well yeah no one can understand another person fully, but I meant at least you need to have a good understanding on each other to have a successful relationship. :) Misunderstandings often leads to failure you know.

    Yeah I quite understand that; life is all about taking chances.you might end up losing but like you said if you don't try it you aren't gonna have it anyway. If I get hurt, then so be it. I would rather be hurt for sometime than regret about it for rest of my life. I still remember one of the quotes, "In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take, the relationships we were too afraid to have and the decisions we waited too long to make". So I guess thats sums up everything :) Thanks man :) I'll see how my fate works out :)

    aaand about that bottle part, well you know what I am going to say to that don't ya :D

    Anyways man gonna sleep then. Gdnyt! :)
     
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    well, you will never know this unless you try it right? don't let your fears hold you back man, just go for it ( be ready for a little heart ache just in case though) but I'm sure it will pay off well one way or the other.

    If she's willing as well, why don't the two of you give it a go and see where it takes you? relationships after all are all about two parties making compromises to make it work, if you are in love (curse that is) you will forego imperfections of your partner probably thinking of them as the most wonderful things created by the almighty god..

    also, no amount of years can really get you to know your partner fully..because people always change..some people don't though, it's again as the luck has it..

    This is not without chances of you getting hurt or ending up in a bad position. but if you don't take that chance, you will always live in doubt. so I guess its always better to have loved and lost than not loved at all..

    and if it doesn't work, you can always fall in love with the bottle :love: and discover, as I so frequently have, that true love does come in bottles.



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