ලාංකීය තරුණයෝ සහ හෙට දවස.

[freak88]

ඔබ්ජෙක්සන් මයිලොඩ්

මෙක නිකන් ලස්සන හින්දි ෆිල් එකක් වගේ අපි දෙපැත්තම දකිනවා අපේ හිත කැමති මුන් එකතු වෙනවට එත් උන්ගේ ජිවිත වලින් බැලුවහම එක වෙනස්, උන්ගේ හිත්වල වෙන උන් ඉන්නේ හිත ගිය තැන මාලිගව කියනවා නේ, මිනිස්සු හැමොම හිදයි පලනය කරගන්න බැරි වුනහම පෙනෙන ප්‍රතිරූපය එක්ක තමයි සමාජය මිනිස්සුන්ව මනින්නේ, එත් ඒ තත්වෙට එන්න එයලාට මොකක් හරි අවුලක් ඇති,

සමන්‍යයෙක් මම අශ්‍රය කරන ගැනුලමයි සහා දන්න අය සමස්තයක් වශයෙන් හොදයි යාලුවේ පිරිමි යාලුවෝ එකක් දිවට දිව ගවන් බොක්කෙන් ඉන්නකොට පිටින් බලන කෙනෙක්ට වැරදි දෙයක් හිතෙන්න පුලුවන් එත්, අවන්කයි ඔපන්, බෙස් ප්‍රෙඩ්ස්ලා, ඉතින් ඔනම දරදඩු කෙනෙක් ගැහැනියකට පුලුවන්, එක නැති කරන්න එක වදනකින් ආදරය සෙනෙහස පාලා, හරියට අම්මා අපිට මොනවා හරි කිව්වහම වගේ​

 

[kreezer]

sira kathawa..........mama danna engineer kenek innawa.....u maara honda kollek...penumen awlakuth na......eth thaama thanikadai........uta wada adu qualified badukarayo innawa......unta kali set wenawa ho gaaala

 

[chanaka]

අපිටත් ඔයාට ටික තමා බන්

 

[Nirmal1991]

agree partialy with what you've said about female mind, but it's not entirely true, also saying females only exsists to have babies is bit harsh on them. if that is the case then males too only exsist to reproduce. I think education is key factor here, most women who fuck their lives up are who don't have adiquate education. women who has education knows about the world better so they has a better judgement of life, they tend to have control over their emotions. for an example look at western society, generally women end up with the best possible guy. thats why guys of lower social standereds fail to have a long lasting relationships there. So it's not all about natual selcetion, i would say fuck natual selection. lets evolve the way we want to.

Perfectly true! 99% of Girls who have had a degree/professional level education from Science/Eng/Mgt/Accountant/Low fields finally goes for the most suitable guy according to their social status. But there are some exceptional cases which occur due to woman's bad karma

 

[Nirmal1991]

sira kathawa..........mama danna engineer kenek innawa.....u maara honda kollek...penumen awlakuth na......eth thaama thanikadai........uta wada adu qualified badukarayo innawa......unta kali set wenawa ho gaaala

Macho oya keli set wuna wage newei passe hena charter. Normal eke idala suitable ma kena set karagaththa eka thamai dinum

 

[Silly point]

පවට පින දෙන්න බෑ බන්.කරුමයක් තියේ නම් ඒක විඳවලාම ඉවර කරන්න ඕනා.

බම්ප් කරන්න මචන්

 

[MeGusta]

Perfectly true! 99% of Girls who have had a degree/professional level education from Science/Eng/Mgt/Accountant/Low fields finally goes for the most suitable guy according to their social status. But there are some exceptional cases which occur due to woman's bad karma

But the bad side of this is unlike guys more the girl is educated the vagina moves towards head,not all but most.

 

[Nirmal1991]

more the girl is educated the vagina moves towards head,not all but most.

 

[kolavari]

But the bad side of this is unlike guys more the girl is educated the vagina moves towards head,not all but most.

ඇත්ත කතාව මචන්...
ඇයි කියන්න දන්නේ නම් නැහැ...ගොඩක් කෙල්ලොන්ගේ එහෙම සීන් එකක් තියෙනවා...
පොඩ්ඩක් ඉගෙන ගත්තොත් පට්ටම විදිහට ඔලුව ඉදිමෙනවා...
හෙන ලොකුවට හිතන්නේ.. මමත් ගොඩක් ඕක දැකල තියෙන දෙයක්

 

[KasunKDP]

But the bad side of this is unlike guys more the girl is educated the vagina moves towards head,not all but most.

the more the vergina moves towards heads, better for women. we blame women when they love genuinely and also blame when they be smart in relationships. typical sinhalese.

 

[MeGusta]

the more the vergina moves towards heads, better for women. we blame women when they love genuinely and also blame when they be smart in relationships. typical sinhalese.

It's not about being smart but the kind of attitude that look down on others and not walking on the soil kind of attitude.

 

[KasunKDP]

It's not about being smart but the kind of attitude that look down on others and not walking on the soil kind of attitude.

maybe it's something about our culture. i personally think sri lankan educated women aren't really arrogant like you imply rather they are more reserved than uneducated women.

 

[MeGusta]

maybe it's something about our culture. i personally think sri lankan educated women aren't really arrogant like you imply rather they are more reserved than uneducated women.

May be you haven't come across such women.May be you got the wrong impression of what I'm trying to say.Educate in the sense I mean based on paper qualifications.There are girls who don't have much paper qualifications but well educated and have better consciousness,and those who are over qualified but still walk on soil.I'm talking about some category of girls who try to look down on others with just having completed a 3 month certificate course.And act like there is no one better than her.This is more common in girls than guys as i saw.

 

[KasunKDP]

May be you haven't come across such women.May be you got the wrong impression of what I'm trying to say.Educate in the sense I mean based on paper qualifications.There are girls who don't have much paper qualifications but well educated and have better consciousness,and those who are over qualified but still walk on soil.I'm talking about some category of girls who try to look down on others with just having completed a 3 month certificate course.And act like there is no one better than her.This is more common in girls than guys as i saw.

yes, so that group of women who you are talking about aren't really educated.

 

[MeGusta]

yes, so that group of women who you are talking about aren't really educated.

No I mean the girls with the same mentality even when they go up in the hierarchy act on the sameway even higher than before,may be you haven't come across such.

 

[maraputha]

අැත්ත...!!
අත්දැකීම් සහිතයි..... +

 

[ehseres]

මම බැඳපු කෙනෙක්... ඒත් මම මේ කියන්න හදන්නෙ ලඟකදි ඉඳලා මට තේරෙන දෙයක්..
දැන් බලපන්, හොඳ කොල්ලො කොච්චර ඉන්නවද... අහින්සක, තමන් ගේ පාඩුවේ රස්සාවක් හරි වයාපාරයක් හරි කරලා හම්බ කරන, තමන්ගෙ අම්මා තාත්තාට , සහොදර සහොදරියන්ට සලකගෙන.. යුතුකම් ඔක්කොම ඉටුකරලා... එත් තනිකඩ... උන් වගේ කොල්ලෝ බදින්න මොනම කෙල්ලෙක් වත් නෑ... කෙල්ලොන්ට ඇයි මේ වගේ හොඳ කොල්ලෙක් ව බඳින්න බැරි.. කෙල්ලොත් හොයලා හොයලා හොඳ වහු කුණ කට සෙට් වෙනවා.... ඇයි මෙහෙම වෙන්නෙ? මුන්ට හොඳ නරකින් වෙන්කර ගන්න බැරි....
මම දන්න කොල්ලො කිහිප දෙනෙක් ඉන්නවා... හොඳින් ජීවත් වෙන ..එත් තාම තනිකඩ.. උන් කැමති කෙල්ලො උන්ට කැමති නෑ.. එකෙක් ගෙ ට්‍රයි එක අමු වලත්තයෙක් පස්සෙ යනවා... මගේම ඥාති සහෝදරයෙක් හිටියා... අමු බඩු කාරායා... හැබැයි බැන්දේ හෙනම අහින්සක කෙල්ලෙක්ව
...
හොඳ කොල්ලන්ට කෙල්ලො සෙට් වෙන්නේ නෑ... හොඳ කෙල්ලන්ට වසල යක්කු සෙට් වෙනව... මං මේ කියන්නෙ බහුතරය... හොඳට වෙන කසාද නැතුවත් නෙමි...

උබේ කටේ මසුරන් දාන්න ඔන්නෙ මචන්, උබට හිතිච්ච දේම මටත් කීපාරක් නම් හිතිලා ඇද්ද....
අයි බන් මෙහෙම වෙන්නෙ? ගිය ආත්මෙදි කරපු පව් මේ ආත්මෙදි පලිසන් දෙනවද මන්දා ???.....

 

[ruwper]

ela machan. rep dunna

 

[king_pandukabaya]

agree partialy with what you've said about female mind, but it's not entirely true, also saying females only exsists to have babies is bit harsh on them. if that is the case then males too only exsist to reproduce. I think education is key factor here, most women who fuck their lives up are who don't have adequate education. women who has education knows about the world better so they has a better judgement of life, they tend to have control over their emotions. for an example look at western society, generally women end up with the best possible guy. thats why guys of lower social standereds fail to have a long lasting relationships there. So it's not all about natual selcetion, i would say fuck natual selection. lets evolve the way we want to.

Well, Females and Males both (I mean the variations in humans as genders) have been there for reproduction. If humans can divide like bacteria or amoeba, no need to have sexes at the first place. Human anatomy is designed so that only women can carry the offspring, that's why their physical and most importantly mental development happens. Going for the strongest guy is the result of that.

The main question asked by the poster of this thread is 'Why girls do not get attracted to the kind, attentive and nice guys with a good prospects and income?'. That is the problem!!! Imagine a guy who is well educated or has a good job with savings and economic security. He can support a woman and her offspring. His downside is that he is being nice, kind and attentive. He is not the typical strong and aggressive person. He might not have a good physique and a 6 pack with a bear-looking beard, broad shoulders and a jawline. I'm not overly emphasizing about the physical characters but I'm also focusing on the mental qualities as well.

Aggression, boldness and other manly characteristics still plays part here. Even the educated young ladies and girls who has to potential to achieving high standards coupled with economic freedom might not be relying on the good qualities of the man, let alone the uneducated, 'dumb' women.

The qualities we emphasize as 'good' in a man might not be 'good' at all.

There are three kinds guys

a) uneducated, without any prospects but aggressive and manly - These guys may attract uneducated women. Nowadays educated girls might have a fling with them attracted to their manliness but only to dump them

b) uneducated, without any prospects and also kind, attentive and caring - These guys will be forever alone. Only bollywood movies have girls who like them (ah no... they can't fight end of story )

c) educated, have economic prospects but kind, attentive and caring [basically nice]
WE are discussing about these kind of guys in this thread!!!
How good their paycheque is, how well they treat their parents doesn't matter. The problem is educated ladies doesn't need them as well.
Since most of the new 90's generation educated girls are independent, and have good jobs, they tend to 'friendzone' these boys. I've heard this line many times "He/You is/are a good friend but" (එයා හොඳ යාලුවෙක්, ඒ උනත්!!!)

d) educated, have economic prospects and aggressive and manly.
These are the real winners

They have everything. They might be rich kids but has the social status and education combined with that boldness. They are totally opposite to the kind and attentive guys. they are mean and mysterious. In the old times, a knight always respected ladies but look at them


Finally all I have to say is no matter how educated girls are, they tend to fantasize about the mean, aggressive guys, friendzone the nice guys while getting them to do all the thing out of expectations and finally choose the 4th kind of guy who is educated, rice but mean.

~~End of story~~

 

[sika2]

ඔකේ අනිත් පැත්තත් එච්චරයි. හොඳ හැදියාවක් තියන කෙල්ලෝ ඉදිද්දී නිකං සක්කර වට්ටන් වලට හොඳ කොල්ලෝ අහුවෙන්නේ.

කරුමේ තමයි ඉතිං