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Mama western country ekaka university eke studies karana Sinhala kollek. Ape university eke inna majority suddo + suddiyo + western country born Asian kollo kello maava kon karala katha karanne nehe. Meekata hethuwa mokakda kiyala matath thernne nehe.
Mama danna vidhihata mage athin kisi wereddak karalanam nehe. Maga mage paaduwe inna kenek. Hebei wetila inna porak dekkoth bokka vunath dena jaathiye ekek. Mee majority suddo + suddiyo + western country born Asian kollo kello ekka mata group work/presentations karanna thiyenewa, evva karanakota ee aya math ekka katha karanawa. Eeth eeta passé, pavement, canteen, library eke dekkama , meet vunaama, ee aya maava ignore karala katha nokara yanna yanawa. Ai mehema venne?
Mee ayata anukampa karala help karanna giyaana mee aya ouluwata atha hodanawa, anthimeedi matama theruna mama no1 mettek kiyala. Ethin eeta passé mama thaniyama mage weda tika karaganna patan gaththa. Maava kon vuna kiyala hithala, mee double standards, fake identities gena hithala hithala mama exams fail vuna. Maaava kon karapu aya okkoma vage exams pass vuna. Matama theruna ape Sinhala gathi guna, hediyaana thiyena aya mee ratawalwala hoyaganna behe kiyala. Hebei, pitaratavalin arrpu coloured poraval thama math ekka tikak hari katha karanne. Eeka hithata hari sathutak!
Ai minissu mee vidhihata hesirenne? Ai mee tharam kuriru? Ai meetharam vidhihata anith ayawa ignore karanne? Ai meethnam tharaha, eerisiyaava hitha athule hithaagena jeevath venne? Api katha karana accent eka nisaada? Ape skin colour eka nisaada? Api pitaratakin nisaada?
Hitha hadaagena paadam weda tika karaganna puluwan bokkata vadhina onnema advice ekak ganna mama ready!
 

castellain

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    Math Uni ekaka awrudu hatarak katta kaapu kollek. Palawewni awrudde deweni dawase ape batch ekke hamooma mawa danagena hitiya. eeth 3rd year wenakota mata hitiye yaaluwo 3 denek witarai. Mokada ee hamotama tiyenne tama tamange aramunu. un eekata langama inna ekage bella kapanna ona welawaka lastiy. Moonata ekak kiyala hatara wate wena kata kiyanne. mama final year wenakota campus eka amu sohonak wagee peenna gatte. eeth mata eeken labuna lokuma dayadaya tamai, minissu anduna ganna labeema.
    Mama mage mahapola duppat unta deepu ekek. eeth ee ekakwat ada mata call ekakwat denne naa.dakkata hina wenne naa. ubata ehema wela naa. mata tibba aramuna yaluwanta udaw kireema. unta tibba aramuna Class ekak ganeema. uba ee atin lucky. ubata kela wune eka parai. eeth anagate oya siddiya una nam ubata oita wada paadu wenawa. Mama dan minissu anduranawa. kaatawath denna yanne mokatada? eeka kale nasti kirillak witarai. attatama apita adare karana kenek loke innawanan ee ammai thaattai witaray. looke gana hitala newei, ee aya gana hitala ubata ubee wade hariyata karana ekee yutukamak tiyenawa.
     

    nisha500

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    oya owa gana mukuth hithanna epa,mokada mamath kalayak oye wage dekata muhuna dunna,ath man purudu una kawruth nathiwa mage wada karaganna.cls 1ke unath man hitiye thaniyama,ath samahara grp work walata man anik aya ekka ekathu wela wada kala,ai man eyalagen kisima deyak balaporoththu une na.adatath samahara ganu lamai thaniyama wadak karaganna baruwa latha wenawa,ath man thaniyama inna purudu una nisa mata ada sathutui.man mage exam 1th pass una,mokada man man ganama hithala hitha hadagatta nisa.api ipaduneth thaniyama,marenneth thaniyama.ammi thaththai vitharai api gana hithanne.thaman thani una kiyala hithanna epa,loku amaruwakin galauna kiyala hithala,thamange paduwe wada tika karagena yanna,bt anik aya ekka tharaha wenna epa,oni welawata katha karanna,ethanin ehata eyalagen oyatawath oyagen eyalatawath kisima deyak gana balaporoththu thiyaganna epa,bt usawwak oni kenekta thamanta haki pamanin udaw karanna amathaka karanna epa,bt kawawwath karata ganna epa.minissunge hati danagena jeewath wenna.thamange studies gana,thamage ammi thathage hopes gana thamange jeewithe gana hithanna.nikan boruwata kohewath inna aya nisa nikan jeewithe nasthi karaganna epa.good luck...
     
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    PhoneUnlocker

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    Malli mama oyata eaka deyak kiyannam, api ipadenneth thaniyama marenneth thaniyama. eaka nisa thaniyama hema deema karaganna purudu wenna. kauruth gena balaporothhu thiyaganna eapa. kauruth apita udau karai kiyala hithannath eapa udau karanne ne kiyala duk wennath eapa. anun gena balaporothhu thiyagannama apita wenne nikan duk wenna vitharai. mata oya wage deewal oona tharam wela thiyenawa. but mamanam satha pahakata ganan ganne ne. kauru hari udauwak illuwoth mama bokkenma udau karanawa. but mama kawadaawath ee udu karapu miniha mata udauwak karai kiyala balaporothhuwak thiyaganne ne. oya campus eakata giye mokak hari aramunak eathiwa. oya ee aramunata yanna balanna. eaka hithe thiyagana weda karanna. apita set wenna fun ganna oona tharam welawa hadaganna puluwan. but igana ganna thiyenne harima tika kaalayak. eaka nisa oya oyage target eaka gena hithala ee gena weda karanna. anith deewal gena eatharamma hithanna yanna eapa.

    Good luck.
     

    PhoneUnlocker

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    oya owa gana mukuth hithanna epa,mokada mamath kalayak oye wage dekata muhuna dunna,ath man purudu una kawruth nathiwa mage wada karaganna.cls 1ke unath man hitiye thaniyama,ath samahara grp work walata man anik aya ekka ekathu wela wada kala,ai man eyalagen kisima deyak balaporoththu une na.adatath samahara ganu lamai thaniyama wadak karaganna baruwa latha wenawa,ath man thaniyama inna purudu una nisa mata ada sathutui.man mage exam 1th pass una,mokada man man ganama hithala hitha hadagatta nisa.api ipaduneth thaniyama,marenneth thaniyama.ammi thaththai vitharai api gana hithanne.thaman thani una kiyala hithanna epa,loku amaruwakin galauna kiyala hithala,thamange paduwe wada tika karagena yanna,bt anik aya ekka tharaha wenna epa,oni welawata katha karanna,ethanin ehata eyalagen oyatawath oyagen eyalatawath kisima deyak gana balaporoththu thiyaganna epa,bt usawwak oni kenekta thamanta haki pamanin udaw karanna amathaka karanna epa,bt kawawwath karata ganna epa.minissunge hati danagena jeewath wenna.thamange studies gana,thamage ammi thathage hopes gana thamange jeewithe gana hithanna.nikan boruwata kohewath inna aya nisa nikan jeewithe nasthi karaganna epa.good luck...

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    anuru_1

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    oh mamath this year campus yanna inne, actually mama hithagena hitiye campus giyama godak friends meet wenna puluwan kiyala cuz mama danuth mama inne e wage community ekaka, bt oyala kiyana widiyata campus 1 kiyanne e waeplace 1k nemei wage, ethana hariyata apita ona deya witark aragena enna thiyena place 1k wage, mata meka mara confused ekata gihillama tamai matath ,aka balanna wenne,
     

    x-pert

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    Oya kiyana kathawa hari naththema naha machan. Godak wita mamath oka dakala thiyenawa and ath widalath thiyenawa.

    Lankawe nam Campus wala yaaluwo tikak hitiya fit eke. But Western country 1ka (Australia) ita tikak wenas thathwe.

    Godak okata hethu wela thiyenne kalin hitapu ayage waradi and Indian unge moda wada. Apith penumata Indian wage nisai apitath ohoma wenne. Habai eyala danagaththata passe api Sri Lankan kiyala godak hodin katha karanawa mata danila thiyenawa.

    Monawa unath machan yaaluwo gana hithanna oni nahane?
    Apita api innawa. and lagin asuru karanna puluwan tika denek hitiyama athine?
    Amuthuwen sudu yaaluwo mokatada bung.

    Mama thawath dakka deyak thamai owa okkoma igenaganna kan witharai. Mama dan job ekak karanawa and Uni eke teaching karanawa. Ethakota hambena sudu, kalu, indian onima ekek oyata hari widiyata salakanawa.
    Habai mehemai, western countries wala friends la athare thiyena bond eka aduyi lankawata wada. Un yaaluwek ekkawath kaamak share karagena kanne godak kalaathurakin ne.

    Wadiya hithanna epa bung fake identities gana. Api apita puluwan widiyata udawu kalla inna oni return ekak balanne nathuwa. Apita moko bung un kohoma salakuwath. Api dannawane ape hithata ekagawa api waradak karanne naha kiyala.

    Ape wada puluwan tharam thaniyen karaganna eka thamai wadagath eka ekaage gas balanne nathuwa :D

    Ubata jaya!
     

    Randir

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    machan every university has that kind of people...dont try to talk with them, ignore them too..
    are u doing lot of part time work where you study , and do those people know that ?
    mostly in western countries if u have money, no problem. but when others get to know that u dont have money, that kind of things can happen. dont care those people...
    Im also studying in a western country, but that kind of things didnt happen to me, maybe because me myself dont have time to talk with them, most of my friends are from asian countries here.. several of my asian friends have european girl friends too..
    anyhow if someone ignore u,. u also ignore them.....
    dont worry
     

    Randir

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    Oya kiyana kathawa hari naththema naha machan. Godak wita mamath oka dakala thiyenawa and ath widalath thiyenawa.

    Lankawe nam Campus wala yaaluwo tikak hitiya fit eke. But Western country 1ka (Australia) ita tikak wenas thathwe.

    Godak okata hethu wela thiyenne kalin hitapu ayage waradi and Indian unge moda wada. Apith penumata Indian wage nisai apitath ohoma wenne. Habai eyala danagaththata passe api Sri Lankan kiyala godak hodin katha karanawa mata danila thiyenawa.

    Monawa unath machan yaaluwo gana hithanna oni nahane?
    Apita api innawa. and lagin asuru karanna puluwan tika denek hitiyama athine?
    Amuthuwen sudu yaaluwo mokatada bung.

    Mama thawath dakka deyak thamai owa okkoma igenaganna kan witharai. Mama dan job ekak karanawa and Uni eke teaching karanawa. Ethakota hambena sudu, kalu, indian onima ekek oyata hari widiyata salakanawa.
    Habai mehemai, western countries wala friends la athare thiyena bond eka aduyi lankawata wada. Un yaaluwek ekkawath kaamak share karagena kanne godak kalaathurakin ne.

    Wadiya hithanna epa bung fake identities gana. Api apita puluwan widiyata udawu kalla inna oni return ekak balanne nathuwa. Apita moko bung un kohoma salakuwath. Api dannawane ape hithata ekagawa api waradak karanne naha kiyala.

    Ape wada puluwan tharam thaniyen karaganna eka thamai wadagath eka ekaage gas balanne nathuwa :D

    Ubata jaya!

    :yes::yes::yes::yes:
     

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    oya owa gana mukuth hithanna epa,mokada mamath kalayak oye wage dekata muhuna dunna,ath man purudu una kawruth nathiwa mage wada karaganna.cls 1ke unath man hitiye thaniyama,ath samahara grp work walata man anik aya ekka ekathu wela wada kala,ai man eyalagen kisima deyak balaporoththu une na.adatath samahara ganu lamai thaniyama wadak karaganna baruwa latha wenawa,ath man thaniyama inna purudu una nisa mata ada sathutui.man mage exam 1th pass una,mokada man man ganama hithala hitha hadagatta nisa.api ipaduneth thaniyama,marenneth thaniyama.ammi thaththai vitharai api gana hithanne.thaman thani una kiyala hithanna epa,loku amaruwakin galauna kiyala hithala,thamange paduwe wada tika karagena yanna,bt anik aya ekka tharaha wenna epa,oni welawata katha karanna,ethanin ehata eyalagen oyatawath oyagen eyalatawath kisima deyak gana balaporoththu thiyaganna epa,bt usawwak oni kenekta thamanta haki pamanin udaw karanna amathaka karanna epa,bt kawawwath karata ganna epa.minissunge hati danagena jeewath wenna.thamange studies gana,thamage ammi thathage hopes gana thamange jeewithe gana hithanna.nikan boruwata kohewath inna aya nisa nikan jeewithe nasthi karaganna epa.good luck...
    :yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:
    අනිත් අය ඔයාව නොසලකා හරිනව කියල හිතෙන වෙලවට ඒගැන හිතල වධ වෙන්න එපා.ඒ වෙලාවට ඔයාගෙ තියෙන ශක්තීන් ගැන හිතල, හිතට වීර්යය අරගෙන ඔයගෙ වැඩ කටයුතු ටික හොදින් කරගෙන යන්න.......ජයවේවා......!
     

    dilan9962

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    advice dunna oyagollo okkomatama mulu hadinma sthuthi!:)

    eeth mata mee parippuwa kanna behe. :sorry::dull::baffled::confused::no:

    mama studies atha herala dhaala yanna yanawa lankaavata. mage rata mee pita ratawal valata vadaa siya dahas vaarayak vatinawa.:love:

    mama budun wediya lankaave epadenna heethuwak thiyenna athi. thaman pera karapu pin/paw valada anuwa thamaa eka ekkena eka eka rataval wala epadenne. ;)

    mama yanna yanawa mama hedunu wedunu mage ratata.

    (mama kiyana dee kavadha hari davasaka oyagollontath vetahei)
     

    x-pert

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    advice dunna oyagollo okkomatama mulu hadinma sthuthi!:)

    eeth mata mee parippuwa kanna behe. :sorry::dull::baffled::confused::no:

    mama studies atha herala dhaala yanna yanawa lankaavata. mage rata mee pita ratawal valata vadaa siya dahas vaarayak vatinawa.:love:

    mama budun wediya lankaave epadenna heethuwak thiyenna athi. thaman pera karapu pin/paw valada anuwa thamaa eka ekkena eka eka rataval wala epadenne. ;)

    mama yanna yanawa mama hedunu wedunu mage ratata.

    (mama kiyana dee kavadha hari davasaka oyagollontath vetahei)

    Mokada une machan?
    Studies atha harina eka nam moda wadak mona hethuwak matha unath.

    Hamotama pita rataka igena ganna chance ekak naha malli. Uba labila thiyena chance eka nathi karaganna epa ikman theeranayak aragena.

    Ape rata me ratawal walata wada watina bawa aththa. Namuth oya dan inne pita rataka. Eh labila thiyena chance ekata payin gahanna epa. Mokada mama danuwathwa me ElaKiri eka athulema godak denek innawa pita rataka igena ganna oni kama thibunata yanna chance ekak nathi aya.

    Prashna wadiya hithanne nathuwa igena ganna.
    Igenagena iwara wunaata passe lankawata yanna ratata wadak karanna puluwan hoda purawasiyek widiyata.

    Prashna aawama eewa maga harala yana eka minissunge purudda unata sinhalaya ehema ekek newei. Prashna walata kollek wage konda kelin thiyan muhuna denna shakthiya thiyenawa apita. Bayagullek wela prashnen panala yana eka newei wenna oni machan. Uba bayagullek newei. Ubata ithuru tikath ohoma idala hodin igenagena passe lankawata gihin ratata wadak karanna shakthiya thiyenawa :) ubata jaya!

    [Uba mona rate da inne? ]
     

    Lokka Ayya

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    ayoo kollo owa ganna ganna epa..ape uni eketh ehema thama....mata set une..indians, pakistan, saudi arabia, nigerian set eka witharay..uk un ge gas wadiy......unwa amthaka karala oya oyage wade karanna..apita api witharay...wena kawruth naha udaw karanna.....api rata mulin ma giyahama exam poddka ala wenawa thama..eeata passe honda plan ekak hadala gemata bahinna..thawa prasha thiyanwa nam ona welawaka thread ekak danna..elakiri eke ayya akkala, mallila, nangila ona welawaka lasthi wahcnayakin hari oyata udawamkaranna..

    obata suba pathami