අපේ යාලුවෙක්...

CoolCartoon

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wrote this to post on my blog... and thought to share with EK as well....

about some people live with us... in this world...


නිකන් ඉන්න වෙලාවෙ ඉයේ පෙරෙද උන සිද්දියක් මතක් උනා. කට්ට්යත් එක්ක බෙද ගන්න කියල හිතුනා. ලොකු සීන් එකක් නමි නෙමී. ඒත් අපෙ කට්ටියගෙ හැටි.

මගේ යලුවෙක් ඉන්නවා කැන්ගරු ලන්තේ 6 වෙනි අවුරුද්දත් ඉවරය්. තාම එක පාරක් වත් ආවත් හරි ලන්කාවට ගිහින් නම් නේ. අනේ ඉතින් නැති බැරි කමට් නම් කමකුත් නේ. ( එහෙම තමය් කියන්නේ... එ උනාට ඉතින් කාට කියන්නද... හිත ඇත්තම් පත කුඩාද කිව්වලු )

හරි හරි මෙහෙමය් ඉතින්.. මෙ මනුස්සය අඩුම ගානෙ තමන්ගෙ අම්ම තාත්තටවත් Call එකක් දෙන්නෙ නෙ. සල්ලි නෙහෙලු.
අම්ම ඉතින් අමාරුවෙන් ලන්කාවෙ ඉදන් Call එකක් දුන්නොත් මිසක් අපෙ යාලුව නම් සත පහක් වියදම් කරන්නෙ නෙ එ මිනිස්සු ඉන්නවද බලන්නවත්.
ඉතින් මෙ ලගදි ඔය කතා කරන වෙලෙවක අපෙ තව යලුවෙක් අහුව උඹ ගෙඩරට cඅල්ල් කරනවද කියල....මොකක් හරි හෙතුවකට අහුවෙ.... මෙ මනුස්සයා කියපි... "" $ 10 ක් දියන් Call් කරන්න "" කියල.... එතකොට ප්‍රශ්නෙ අහපු යලුව ඇහුව "" උබලගෙ අම්ම තත්ත උඹව අවුරුදු 22 ක් හදන්න උඹෙන් සල්ලි ගත්තඩ කියල "".... කට උත්තර නෙනේ...

හැබය් දන්නවද උත්තරේ... "" ඒව යුතුකම්. ""

මට හිතුන යකො මෙහම උන් ඉන්න ලොකෙක නෙ අපිත් ඉන්නෙ කියල....
 
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maara manussayek thamai :shocked: maarath na eka athakata. ehema aya naththam ithin mechchara mahalu niwasa ehema thiyenna widihak nahane. anyway good post. :)
 

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    hm..
    ok, 2 things, Some really do have a hard time living over there. Especially those who go on student visa. We dont know if this friend of yours is really having a hard time or not so you will have to give him the benefit of the doubt there (I have first hand info on how hard it can get).

    Now for the second part, think a bit more about the answer he gave. Was he really so wrong to say it ? Blunt, yes but is it really wrong ? Think hard and long before replying.
     

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    ළමයින්ව හදා ගන්න එක දෙමවුපියන්ගෙ යුතුකම තමයි. හැබැයි දෙමවුපියන්ව සොයා බලා ගන්න එක, හිතවත්ව සිටීම ළමයින්ගෙ යුතුකම සහ වගකීම. දෙමවුපියන්ම වෙන්න ඕනෙ නැහැ; වෙන කෙනෙක් වුණත් අපට කන්න බොන්න දීල, ලෙඩට දුකට බැලුවනම් අපට යුතුකමක් ඉතුරු වෙනවනෙ කළගුණ සැළකීමට. ඉතින් දෙමවුපියන් ගැන කවර කතාද? නමුත් ඕක ලෝකෙන්ම පළවෙනි සිද්ධියනම් නෙවෙයි.
     

    CoolCartoon

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    hm..
    ok, 2 things, Some really do have a hard time living over there. Especially those who go on student visa. We dont know if this friend of yours is really having a hard time or not so you will have to give him the benefit of the doubt there (I have first hand info on how hard it can get).

    Now for the second part, think a bit more about the answer he gave. Was he really so wrong to say it ? Blunt, yes but is it really wrong ? Think hard and long before replying.

    he is a citizen of this coutry... No student shit.
    drives a Sport car. :)

    what is with second part ???
    it can be A YUTHUKAMAK. but is he right ?? then aht about his part of YUTHUKAM ???
     

    kosandpol

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    he is a citizen of this coutry... No student shit.
    drives a Sport car. :)

    what is with second part ???
    it can be A YUTHUKAMAK. but is he right ?? then aht about his part of YUTHUKAM ???
    well, assuming he is well off, then he's just stingy or too busy to call or doesnt care much to make calls.

    Not so much 'it CAN be', it IS a yuthukama, in fact, more than yuthukama, its the duty of the parents to provide and nurture their children.
    Now what exactly is his part of the Yuthukama ? Are the parents ailing ? are they having any other trouble to which he could help but is not helping ?
     

    CoolCartoon

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    well, assuming he is well off, then he's just stingy or too busy to call or doesnt care much to make calls.

    Not so much 'it CAN be', it IS a yuthukama, in fact, more than yuthukama, its the duty of the parents to provide and nurture their children.
    Now what exactly is his part of the Yuthukama ? Are the parents ailing ? are they having any other trouble to which he could help but is not helping ?

    talk to your heart first... then come back.. :)
    aite agree. it is a YUTHUKAMAK. Parents should take care of kids...

    but after they spend money and send him to a coutry like AUS for higher edu... he succeed it and now has a stable situation.

    his part of YUTHUKAMA is take care of them.

    wanna go more ???

    his family is strugling to live. his sister is also live in AUS ( student ) and she and her husbond kill themselves to live and also helps girls family back in SL. ( iRESPECT that guy. the guy who married to his SIS ). he does nt even care about his siter who lives here.


    my friend... i dont want to go more....
     

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    ගෙදර
    පොඩි කාලෙ ලෙඩට දුකට බලලා , කන්න බොන්න දීපු අම්මව තාත්තව වෙනුවෙන් ඔහොම දෙයක් වත් කරන්න බැරි එකෙක් ගැන මොන කතාද බන් :dull:
     

    twisted

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    may be there's more to it you don't know..not saying i agree with what he does, no matter what, children should always show some love to their parents even if they treated him badly things are not always what it looks like ne..who knows may be he had a bad past with them ..we ppl all are different may be the way we feel about our parents even if we shared same situations can be pretty different from his.. but post it online and have him bluntly ripped apart by a bunch of strangers is no good too.

    ps...fonts bald hinda kiyawanna amarui bro..
     

    CoolCartoon

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    may be there's more to it you don't know..not saying i agree with what he does, no matter what, children should always show some love to their parents even if they treated him badly things are not always what it looks like ne..who knows may be he had a bad past with them ..we ppl all are different may be the way we feel about our parents even if we shared same situations can be pretty different from his.. but post it online and have him bluntly ripped apart by a bunch of strangers is no good too.

    ps...fonts bald hinda kiyawanna amarui bro..

    sorry about fonts....

    mm whatever happend his parents feed him... showed him the future... send him to a country like this.... what else you want from them ???

    and as i know there is nothing him to ignore them...

    i post it online... TRUE. but i did not mention his name. i did not give any clue.
    danno danithi... that is all machan. No one is gonna know who is this guy.... except you know him personally.

    so it is just a STORY.
     
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    twisted

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    sorry about fonts....

    mm whatever happend his parents feed him... showed him the future... send him to a country like this.... what else you want from them ???

    and as i know there is nothing him to ignore them...

    i post it online... TRUE. but i did not mention his name. i did not give any clue.
    danno danithi... that is all machan. N one is gonna know who is this guy.... except you know him personally.

    so it is just a STORY.

    true ...a guy who treat parents like that even if its somehow justified, in my books, is an asshole :) " except you know him personally. " this was rhetorical i take it
     

    CoolCartoon

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    true ...a guy who treat parents like that even if its somehow justified, in my books, is an asshole :) " except you know him personally. " this was rhetorical i take it

    in my book... same... and i ve told him... same words... not once. but always he comes up with something like that... he has a big mouth...

    and sorry machan... i dunno the meaning of " rhetorical " and cb to find it :P simple explanation will help... :)
     
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    twisted

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    in my book... same... and i ve told him... same words... not once. but always he comes up with something like that... he has a big mouth...

    and sorry machan... i dunno the meaning of " rhetorical " and cb to find it :P simple explanation will help... :)

    when you said "except you know him personally" that kinda sound like i might know him personally :lol: since i have no knowledge of your friends i thought you said it as in "except if you know him personally" thats the best i can do lol i don't know an exact meaning for that word either. i just have an idea which i can't explain.
     

    CoolCartoon

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    when you said "except you know him personally" that kinda sound like i might know him personally :lol: since i have no knowledge of your friends i thought you said it as in "except if you know him personally" thats the best i can do lol i don't know an exact meaning for that word either. i just have an idea which i can't explain.

    mmm tbh i cant get an idea about that word... will search it LOl... THANX NYZ...
    sounds like you also have a friend like this... :lol::lol: