උඹලා අම්මා තාත්තට මාසෙට කීයක් දෙනවද බන්?

[dmsupun]

pons, tell me about how do you manage your retirement?

Savings, investments, paying a retirement home in advance, epf, or kill myself. Will never be burden to my children.

Now whats your plan pons?? Asking pocket money from your children???

 

[Smartm]

Savings, investments, paying a retirement home in advance, epf, or kill myself. Will never be burden to my children.

Now whats your plan pons?? Asking pocket money from your children???

nope, same, Savings, investments, paying a retirement home in advance, epf, or kill myself

but Ill take care of my parents too..

 

[roshan fernando]

magenam adahasa mcn plans nam apita passe kaaleka karaganna uthsaha karanna puluwan, hebei amma thaththa nathi unata passe eyala jeewathwela indeddi salakaganna bari una kiyana feeling eka awama mari maree thamai salli thiyagena inna wenne. eka nisa ada ada a minissu gana hoyala balala wiyadam karana eka thamai honda kiyala hithenne

 

[dmsupun]

nope, same, Savings, investments, paying a retirement home in advance, epf, or kill myself

but Ill take care of my parents too..

Good.
My parents are ahead of me. They have pension payments, rented house, separate house to live and savings. Even after giving me a fair share.
Proud of them and i follow their ways.

 

[Hankook]

අනාත නිවාසෙක ඉන්නෙ එහෙන් කෑම බීම දෙන්වා
මම රට නිසා

 

[Smartm]

Good.
My parents are ahead of me. They have pension payments, rented house, separate house to live and savings. Even after giving me a fair share.
Proud of them and i follow their ways.

Even after giving me a fair share.

lol..

"Savings, investments, paying a retirement home in advance, epf, or kill myself. Will never be burden to my children."

ane pons, nikan gon part noda idapan.. labbatada ehenam tho burden ekak wenne thoge parentslata?

 

[manjulabw]

Good.
My parents are ahead of me. They have pension payments, rented house, separate house to live and savings. Even after giving me a fair share.
Proud of them and i follow their ways.

@DragonD exposed

 

[Sathira529]

අම්මයි අප්පච්චීයි දෙන්නම පෙන්ෂන් එකක් ගන්නවා. අප්පච්චී ටියුෂනුත් කරනවා. සල්ලි වලින් එච්චර අවුලක් නෑ දෙන්නට. මාත් ජොබ් එකට ගියෙ ලඟදි. මම කීයක් වත් දෙන්නෙ නෑ. එයාල ඉල්ලන්නෙත් නෑ. වෙලාවකට මං නම් එයාලගෙන් ඉල්ලගන්නව හැබැයි. අම්මා පිට්සා කන්න ආසයි. අම්මට පිට්සා එකක් අප්පච්චිට බෝතලයක් අරන් දෙනවා මාසෙකට දෙපාරක් වගේ. එච්චර තමා. ගෙදර ඉන්න සත්තුන්ට නම් වියදම් කරන්නෙ මං

 

[dmsupun]

Even after giving me a fair share.

lol..

"Savings, investments, paying a retirement home in advance, epf, or kill myself. Will never be burden to my children."

ane pons, nikan gon part noda idapan.. labbatada ehenam tho burden ekak wenne thoge parentslata?

you still didnt get the point pons. If somebody makes children, they should be able to provide them for life. Its their dicision to bring up a child, not the childs. This is my idea.
My child will never have to work. He has enough resouces to survive until he dies. Of course more than half of those are inherited. He will inheret MORE. Collectively from my wifes and my side.

 

[Hankook]

මමන්ම් මදි වුනොත් @Solo Rider මහත්තායාගෙන් ඉල්ලගන්නවා

 

[dmsupun]

@DragonD exposed

අන්න ජීවිත, මෙත අපි අම්මට තාත්තට රුපියල් 5000ක් දෙන එක ගැන කතා කරනවා. ඔය 5000 දෙන එකාට කොයන්න තියෙන්නෙ ජීවිතේ තව හදාගන්නකල් ළමයි නම් හදන්න එපා කියල.

 

[waasalamudali]

50000

 

[RealityOfX]

you still didnt get the point pons. If somebody makes children, they should be able to provide them for life. Its their dicision to bring up a child, not the childs. This is my idea.
My child will never have to work. He has enough resouces to survive until he dies. Of course more than half of those are inherited. He will inheret MORE. Collectively from my wifes and my side.

Two Extreme ends
1. Giving nothing to Children, expecting from them to treat yourself.
2. Giving too much for the children. Make them dependant

Extreme ends always bad

 

[dmsupun]

Two Extreme ends
1. Giving nothing to Children, expecting from them to treat yourself.
2. Giving too much for the children. Make them dependant

Extreme ends always bad

I was believing the same untill i meet some people from rich backgrounds.
They has plenty of opportunity to do trial and error. You'll notice this amoung the inventors and businessmen. Not 100% but they always have a better chance in life.
Apart from that, it the parents should take 100% responsibility for their decision to bring up a child. My personal opinion.

 

[Myth]

Mama dila Mase antimata dunnata wadaillagannawa eka Nisa umbe salli epa kiyala tiyenne

 

[Raneesh]

machan mama keeyakwath denne na..they have pension allowance and i'm not living with them

Gedara yankota essential badu aran yanawa ethin edala hitala

 

[Smartm]

you still didnt get the point pons. If somebody makes children, they should be able to provide them for life. Its their dicision to bring up a child, not the childs. This is my idea.
My child will never have to work. He has enough resouces to survive until he dies. Of course more than half of those are inherited. He will inheret MORE. Collectively from my wifes and my side.

"My child will never have to work."

ubata tama wayasa madi ban owa terum ganna..

peace! thanks for the comments!

 

[dmsupun]

"My child will never have to work."

ubata tama wayasa madi ban owa terum ganna..

peace! thanks for the comments!

Cheers!

 

[Tharaka25]

බඳින්න අවුරුදු 2කට කලින් නම් හැම සතේම මගේ අම්මට තමා දුන්නේ . වයිෆ්ගෙ අම්මලාට මාසෙකට 20ක් විතර යවනවා. මගේ අම්මට සත පහක් දෙන්නේ නෑ. මොකද මට ලෙඩ වෙලා (depression) ඉද්දී මාව නොමරා මැරුවා. මට අමතක වෙන ලෙඩක් ආවා. තාමත් මට සමහර අවුරුදු පිටින් අමතකයි. දැනුත් ටිකක් තියෙනවා. ඒ කාලෙ සල්ලි හෙව්වා මාසෙට ලක්ෂ ගණන්. ඒවට උන දෙයක් නෑ.

උඹ කොහොමද දන්නෙ උඹ සල්ලි හෙව්ව කියල?

 

[RealityOfX]

I was believing the same untill i meet some people from rich backgrounds.
They has plenty of opportunity to do trial and error. You'll notice this amoung the inventors and businessmen. Not 100% but they always have a better chance in life.
Apart from that, it the parents should take 100% responsibility for their decision to bring up a child. My personal opinion.

Yah I agree Parents' is having a child In addition, parents' responsibility to teaching whats the world. Theaching that their children are not the center of the world. Teaching that every wealth they have some day can be dissappeared. Teaching that having a goal and work hard for that for themselves for their lives.

And parents never should expect everything back from children too. Everything should be balanced.

If we gave too much, they will be just 1 head count for the population. Most probably a wasted one. We have lots of examples.

Its my personal opinion.