simple answer 1ke; confront karanne epa. 1ke prasnayak eti karanawa witarai
1/ oye prob eke dennama godak podi kale(4 & 8) una deyak hnda meka lokuwata kalpana karanne deyak nwei. ewagema mewage prob 1kedi hitala balanne one, eke participants/victims lage weraddakmad kyala. e.g. situation unath godak important. ekata kiyanne Situational attribution kiyala formally. Stanford prison experiment wage experiments walin me wage attributions prove karalath tyenwa.
2/ meet una kiwwa girl gena kalpna karoth; e girlta ara wage prob ekak nowunath trust issues tyenne neti wei kiyala 100% sure de? mokde e wage probs nowuna ayatath godak trust issues tyenne puluwn.
normal kenekta generally 5 yrs wlata adu memories godak aduwen tyenne. Itin 3 yrs waladi una deyak e girl ta hariyatama mataka nan eke tikak pudumai.
Some other research suggests that people's earliest memories date back to the ages of 3 or 4 years... However, the bits and pieces of such memories that were obtained in their research may not be indicative of genuine episodic memory.
Ref: J. A. Usher and U. Neisser, Childhood amnesia and the beginnings of memory for four early life events. Journal of Experimental Psychology, 1993.
Ekiyanne bn ekenne pehedili wenne 3 yrs wage kalekadi tyena memory ekak attatam reconstructive memory ekak kiyana eke. anith wachana walin kiwwoth e memory eke eya older memory ekath ekke eyama aluthen hadagattu imaginary deyak integrate karala aluth memory ekak construct karanawa kiyana eke.
itin uba oye de oye nangita confront karoth eyath ewidihatama constructive memory ekak hadaganne tyene possibility eke wediy. e wagema eyata ehema memory ekak tyenwanan oya eke confirm karanawa.
itin hodeme de e dewal amataka karala silence wena eke.
Hope it helps...
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