උබලා වෙන culture එකක කෙල්ලෙක් එක්ක relationship එකක් පටං ගන්නකොට උඹ අර කැන්දාගෙන එනවා වගේ සිංහල විදිහටම හිතන එක නවත්තන්න වෙනවා. Culture මඟුල් පැත්තක තියලා උබලට adjust වෙන්න බැරි නං මෙහෙ ඉන්න ගොං ගහක් බැඳගනිං පින් සිද්ධ වෙයි, නැත්තන් උන් ඉන්ටර්නෙට් එකේ හැම තැනම ගහන්න ගන්නවා ලංකාවේ උං ව නං කවදාවත් marry කරන්න එපා උං හෙන Island minded කියල. අපේ සායම් ඉවරයි, අපිට නිකමට වත් foreign කෙල්ලෙක් talk කරන්න බැරිව යනවා.Ethin ammai wifui Katha karanne ndda ethkota
ඒ නිසා උබලට open minded වෙන්න බැරි නම් රට වෙනුවෙන් පාඩුවේ local ගොන් මොඩලය කර ගහනු මැනවි. පින් සිද්ධ වෙනවා..
Edit: menna sakshi. link eka hyper link kare naha google eke thawa oka udata ena nisa

lankawe unta palu yanna banala europe kellek
Western girls beware of charming Sri Lankan men
source:I am a European woman married to a Sri Lankan 'man/boy/king' ha ? in their Mother's eyes!
A few words of warning for any other women thinking of marrying a Sri Lankan. It is not an easy path to go down. I worked very hard to bring my husband to Europe and now I think why? I know if things were the other way around I'd still be waiting. My husband is not a bad man really it is the culture of which he is a product of. Before we were married he was very relaxed and fun seemingly accepting of the western culture but after marriage things are different. He does not seem to have much respect for western women in general and makes negative comments, even though people have been nothing but welcoming to him. He thinks western women are alcoholics with loose morals (maybe some but not all). It is very difficult to get him to pay his way even when it is for his child. He does nothing in the house to help and leaves everything for me to do. He stares at girls/women when we are out he doesn't care if it hurts my feelings and does it in my face. His main goal is to build a home in Sri Lanka for his family and saves every penny for this purpose.
As I said a word of warning think before you take that path. We are still together but it can be hard and very very frustrating.
https://www.travellerspoint.com/forum.cfm?thread=106821
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